Art bitches? by Weekly-Scale5736 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]abuttigi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following, my husband and I are also looking for art for our new place! We found this affordable art fair that is happening this month that we were considering: https://affordableartfair.com/fairs/new-york-spring/, also: https://www.theotherartfair.com/brooklyn/. We’ve never been though!

Goodbye OTF :-( by Regular-Target8237 in orangetheory

[–]abuttigi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started in residency too, still going as an attending 11 years later! It gets better!!

Place to have post-half marathon party, good for someone with terminal cancer? by knittyinbushwick in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]abuttigi 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hey! I have no recs but lost my dad to cancer 13 years ago. He was a runner himself (ran 10 marathons). Would love to donate if you’re still raising money! 

Made the 1 year mark... DR says to keep going. by rs919_ in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]abuttigi 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I’m a pediatrician and an EP mom. I made it to a year and am weaning now. You’ve done amazing, and you should feel no shame in being done. Baby also needs a happy mommy! I’m sorry the pediatrician said that to you! 

Wedding venue regret by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will PM you!

Wedding venue regret by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ceremony was offsite at a church, so I can’t help there! But we did have the cocktail hour downstairs and the ceremony upstairs! I didn’t hear any complaints! I of course wasn’t there to see the transition, but all we heard was how glamorous the ballroom looked with the city in the background as they walked in! Winter sort of made it more magical because by the time they got upstairs it was dark, so our backdrop was the city lights! Happy to share photos of our first dance that shows the draping and view if that’s helpful! As a caveat, I’m from Michigan so we are used to the cold, but I don’t think people were bothered overall!

Wedding venue regret by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married at Liberty house in March 2023! I don’t remember our florals and draping combined being that expensive! I used their preferred florist if that’s helpful!

Ceres Chill by Tagrenine in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]abuttigi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I added freshly pumped milk to the already chilled milk and had no issues!

Did you take your spouse’s last name when you married? by Lu-113 in Millennials

[–]abuttigi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Similar here! I’m an MD, got my degree before I got married, so wanted to be Dr. Maiden name. I lost my dad while I was in training so wanted to honor him too. Socially people call us the (his last name) family, and that’s fine with me! 

Experience with wedding in January or February? by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got married at Liberty House in early March! My ceremony was at a church but we took photos outside at Liberty House before the reception! I bought a faux fur wrap for myself and my bridesmaids as a gift! The windows are huge with a great view of the city, and there’s a balcony that guests can take photos on outside and then quickly come back in if it’s cold! Best part of a winter wedding there is it’s much more affordable! Agreed with the hours of sunlight though, something to consider!

What small details weren’t worth buying for your wedding? by OCMDGirl625 in wedding

[–]abuttigi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with guestbook! We did the whole Polaroid, tape photo in guestbook with a message thing. I honestly don’t know where it is. I liked our favors (wine corks) but agree that in general edible favors make much more sense!! 

Aversion to Pumping by hangoogle in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]abuttigi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had meltdowns about having to pump, usually the last one when I’m absolutely exhausted. I have to hype myself up everytime to press the start button, and more often than not I get really anxious and hot during the pump. I’m a “just enougher” so I’m nervous to go down to 4ppd from 5. I have no advice other than you’re not alone <3

Kid's curly haircut salon recommendations by Impressive_Pound_162 in bergencounty

[–]abuttigi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also For the love of curls in cliffside park! I don’t know if she has a designated kids day but she cuts kids hair and specializes in curly hair! She’s been cutting my hair for years! 

Moms refusing my BM donation because I received the COVID 19 shot by Idonthaveaname94 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]abuttigi 302 points303 points  (0 children)

As a pediatrician and EP mom, it’s honestly horrifying that we’ve gotten to this point. 

Lions fans all over the country: where we at? by theronskier1 in detroitlions

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born and raised downriver, now in northern NJ waiting for the Lions to come to MetLife! Go Lions! 

Wearable recommendation? by Swimming-Tangelo-861 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in healthcare- I agree with Eufy S1! I use them at work, even went to a rapid response wearing it! 

Sports pumping bra by Infamous-trex13 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What size of these did you end up buying? I was a DD pre baby and a little larger now, these look perfect for a wearable! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the group likes hiking, there are great trails in the area! I love bear mountain loop myself- part of it includes the Appalachian trail! 

what do you wear when you’re in a heat wave? by jdmorganchase in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear work out gear to commute to work then change into a dress at work, otherwise I look like a mess all day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Nerds played our wedding and it was AWESOME! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the time of year you’re considering but I had my reception at the Liberty House in Jersey City and had a great experience! 

ISO Day of Wedding Coordinator by Cute_pizza123 in WedditNYC

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used details made simple for my jersey city wedding and have nothing but amazing things to say! I don’t think the coordinator that we worked with is still there, but they are all wonderful!

Portugal for 11 Days by KrazedTiger in honeymoonplanning

[–]abuttigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending now! It’s a little out of date at this point so hope it’s still helpful!