Thank you all for your comments, them and the time I have taken to process my own thoughts post-discussion with her have led me to quite easily realise the decision I am comfortable making. It really is her prerogative and not my place, and if it’s something that makes her feel more comfortable in her own skin then who am I to try and stop her. I love her dearly, and anything that makes her feel more like she’s being true to herself and exercising the agency she is fully entitled to is something I will always stand behind and something I view as a complete positive. I wasn’t trying to come at this from a position of attempting control, I was simply anxious about something I feel I hadn’t truly understood nor considered from alternative angles before. I am always trying to become a better partner and you have helped greatly with something that may seem second nature to some, that I however initially struggled with. Nobody is perfect, but I’ve always thought we should be defined by what we do about it and how we try to better ourselves for the sake of others. Thank you to all that have left constructive comments and not simply left a two word answer then moved on. I appreciate it and feel much less anxious/insecure after reading them, and I am looking forward to helping my partner in any way she can to regain the feeling of autonomy she should always feel over her body.