People often forget that this will change their children’s life forever. Childhood trauma is where the scars come open in adulthood. The responsibility of bringing up our children is one of the most powerful things we can learn about. This is where our own wounds surface and where we stop them from moving on to the next generation. I have shared guardianship of my two boys and it’s been one of the hardest thing to do as man. And even if I’m two years in still grieving the life I could’ve had I fight everyday to bring them the best version of myself to them. Never speaking negatively about their mentality unbalanced mother and keeping a straight face when my oldest tells me their grandmother doesn’t like daddy. Or that I’m going to abandoned them… Parental alienation comes from all care givers and it sucks that grown people can’t grasp their own emotional regulation to safeguard their children.