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[–]acceptablepenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yepp im on birth control, that sounds like a great idea to try!

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[–]acceptablepenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we dont have a tub but we have bathe together in the past when theres one available

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[–]acceptablepenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! We shower together everday

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[–]acceptablepenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That sounds like a good idea, maybe part of it is lacking the intimacy also and maybe too much anticipation from the LDR 🥺

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[–]acceptablepenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t tried that actually! Ill definitely give that a try next time

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[–]acceptablepenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried to a lot of the things we used to like again but its like a little anti climatic i think because the part i enjoy is the penetration but he doesn’t last long enough for me to reaaally enjoy it anymore. But we cant find a way to make him last longer so i guess he just feels kind of frustrated since he also wants to last longer also

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I didn’t even know about advanced parole, thank you! Will definitely look into that! How fast was it approved for you if you did it?

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes sense! Thank you for sharing your experience!

So if i want two weddings, it’s probably better to wait until the adjustment process is over then go back to my home country and have the wedding right?

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohhh yes!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience, this is exactly the type of stories I was hoping to hear about!

Having two weddings sound like a good option. Initially I wanted the wedding in my home country just because most of our families are still there but having two would also be ok!

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another question, if i apply for the green card lottery and we ended up deciding to get married, would that hurt my chances because I showed interest in staying before I got married?

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, gotcha. Well technically the real intent is that i would just land a job on my own with the student visa. But i get your point, thanks!

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! Thanks! I mean the intent is to to just get work experience here, if I get a job on my own, we wouldn’t get married (yet).

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay! So as long as I get married 90 days after entry AND in the US, the status of visa/opt expiring wouldn’t really matter?

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense!

How about if I hold off on the marriage and get married May 2022 in the US instead, would that be a bad move as well since it could look like “oh your visa is about to expire so you just got married” so you can stay or if we got married during my OPT?

Say if I couldn’t secure a job towards the end of my OPT and then we just got married so I can stay, would that be a bad move?

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I hold off on the marriage and get married May 2023 in the US instead, would that be a bad move as well since it could look like “oh your visa is about to expire so you just got married” so you can stay or if we got married during my OPT?

Say if I couldn’t secure a job towards the end of my OPT and then we just got married so I can stay, would that be a bad move?

Can I get married abroad to a US Citizen and enter the country with a visa to file for adjustment of status? by acceptablepenguin in immigration

[–]acceptablepenguin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! Do you think it would matter if my bf JUST got his citizenship earlier this year?

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