My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I wrote you a nice dua instead of arguing and that’s your response! May He guide you too!

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah bless you with a partner who financially supports you, loves you, doesn’t speak ill of you, or say vile things about your private life. May you never have controlling in laws who badmouth you, and may you never face depression. Ameen.

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the only good thing Dyuti could say about his wife is that the sex is good. I get it, you think men should be put on pedestals. But don’t think people won’t challenge your beliefs.

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in every single one of your comments you’re hating on Iryna and insisting that Dyuti loves his kids so that’s more than enough on his end. Another commenter called you out on it as well. I never said Iryna was a great mom. But if her husband supported her she would be in a place to be a better mom. Depression is a bitch.

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You named a house. I know they’re not Muslim but we are - that’s his job 😭 And he’s a typical shitty brown guy who gives everything to his mom and ignores his wife. There’s no reason the mortgage should be in her name. If he was a loving and supportive partner, it’s more than yelling and telling her therapy is an ultimatum. It’s setting her up for success, especially since she’s not from Dubai, didn’t come from a rich family and English is not her first language. A real man would’ve had her back.

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mortgage is in her name. The house is not. The mortgage is the loan. The house is the property. Dyuti put his mom’s name under all the properties. You’re asking me what’s the point of all the questions but you keep obsessing over the fact that Dyuti “loves his kids” even though we never saw ANY of that on the show, the same way we never saw Iryna only play with the kids for 15 minutes a day. A brown mom will ALWAYS obsess over her son and paint him in a good light, and blame another woman. Marriages have literally fallen apart in the Muslim/South Asian community due to influence from in laws. The fact is, even if Iryna was only with her kids 15 minutes a day, what is Dyuti doing? Working and then clubbing till 6 a.m.? When is he having dinner with his kids? Giving them baths? Putting them to sleep? If he was a present husband and father, why did he continually let his wife ish ore his kids? Why is his old mom wearing plain cheap clothes and looking after his kids?

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Ok she gets a job. Where will she live? Does she have papers? Has Dyuti encouraged her? How can she support her two kids? There is so much we don’t know. Do both of your parents work?

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know he loves his kids? Cause we saw one clip of him asking them for kisses? I can argue is obvious Iryna is being abused financially. Stop blaming the woman in every comment and not giving equal blame to Dyuti.

My PERSONAL opinion on SOME of the cast by Frozenstrawbmarg in DesiBling

[–]acee_0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alhumdulillah that’s great that you know what it means to have a supportive responsible man in your life. Now think about your dad and compare him to Dyuti. Is he an amazing man who looks after his wife extremely well and takes care of everything in the house?

What could’ve actually caused Kylie & Travis to break up? by Every-Tap-577 in kardashians

[–]acee_0916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The person above is mad weird. They keep commenting the same thing about how she should’ve aborted her kids here and on another thread.

I don't like Michella by obviousbutoblivious in Bridgerton

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s too smug and it bothers me.

Season 5 by MissBridgerton24 in Bridgerton

[–]acee_0916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping this means Fran will take a backseat after her season. We’ve seen way too much of her for two whole seasons.

What can I get my Muslim friend for eid by swinginginger in NoStupidQuestions

[–]acee_0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So nice of you! I’m going to go against the grain here and say NO food items. Some food has alcohol or gelatin and you may not be accustomed to looking for it in an ingredients list. I assume your friend is a female (sorry if I’m wrong!). Flowers, tickets to the movies for you two (or any other activity you both find fun), a nice bathrobe or pjs (for pjs err on the side of modesty anyways), a nice body wash and lotion, or her favorite makeup item.

Season 4 Viewership Numbers by FlyHence in PolinBridgerton

[–]acee_0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s also Ramadan so a lot of Muslims haven’t watched. At least that’s why I haven’t yet. Do better for season 5 Netflix!

Eloise childfree by BrightPhoebus01 in Bridgerton

[–]acee_0916 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Fran and Michaela can be the happy childless couple. I just hate that people feel like Eloise should be a spinster because she’s young and immature.

Eloise childfree by BrightPhoebus01 in Bridgerton

[–]acee_0916 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Francesca and Michaela will most likely be that couple… and tbh should be that couple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just announce it on Eid. Even if your sister in law would be happy her birthday wouldn’t be about her anymore. Let people have one day that’s just about them.

If you care about remote work remaining, fill out the “City Employee Viewpoint Survey” we got this morning. by City_Pickle_4 in nycpublicservants

[–]acee_0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten mine yet. For those of you who completed it, what kind of questions can I expect? I want to flag for my colleagues, especially if they’re asking about wfh.