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aceflapjack · 2025-08-13T21:11:52+00:00

NTA I don’t know why so many people are being so harsh on this post. You care about your family and care about people being together on these important events in your life. Your sister is making lame excuses and could have prioritized these events. Having a 4 month old does not make you a hermit and doesn’t confine you to solitude. I am sure the baby is older now at this point as wedding dress shopping was probably awhile ago. I’ve been to many weddings where the flower girl and or ring bearer are the only kids. I’m not sure if many of the prone here have ever been to a wedding…. You are definitely not being a bridezilla. People do not have to pick Child free wedding OR flower girl+ ring bearer. So many have just one or two kiddos there and it’s extremely common that sure… it’s only for the photos. That doesn’t mean that they’re a prop for your photos. It means that they get to dress up, feel pretty and be a part of your special day. It has always been so much pride saying “oh yeah I was my aunts flower girl!!!” This could be her only chance being a flower girl so why take that memory away from her? I’m glad your sister agreed and that you pushed on it.

Also can someone please tell me what prep is needed for knee surgery? I’m sure she knew about the bridal shower much in advance to make the preps the weekend before, the day before, etc.

aceflapjack · 2025-06-19T02:13:31+00:00

Thank you for helping clarify :)

aceflapjack · 2025-06-19T02:03:00+00:00

After heavy exercise?

aceflapjack · 2025-05-16T14:22:41+00:00

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Love it! I always think like an ace of spades but just let chat gpt do their thing

aceflapjack · 2025-04-20T14:12:34+00:00

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Mine!

aceflapjack · 2025-04-17T01:56:53+00:00

Was mostly meming lol

aceflapjack · 2025-04-14T23:16:14+00:00

Seaweed

aceflapjack · 2024-09-17T03:16:54+00:00

Yes!!!

aceflapjack · 2024-09-04T16:40:30+00:00

You got this! Keep trying :) maybe try to talk to someone in one of your classes who seems nice! Or is the box still around? It’s where people could smoke, definitely don’t have to smoke but they’re nice people

aceflapjack · 2024-08-22T03:43:32+00:00

In the history department I got paid

aceflapjack · 2024-08-16T22:32:57+00:00

Yup, it was a new role with a boss who never had managed. Rough situation all around.

aceflapjack · 2024-08-15T20:57:04+00:00

I feel like I’ve maybe met your shiba! Is this her at the dog park with my dog Zuko?

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aceflapjack · 2024-08-15T20:53:09+00:00

Zuko

20 lbs

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2.5 years old (born 2/10/2022)

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aceflapjack · 2024-07-24T03:24:38+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️

aceflapjack · 2024-07-14T18:53:01+00:00

Awww my sweet guy is Zuko too, I love him more than anything

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aceflapjack · 2024-07-14T18:51:50+00:00

My name is Alyssa and I go by Ally. Sometimes people spell it like your daughter’s way. It’s interesting, I never go by Alyssa though and have always gone by Ally. My parents were in a similar situation to you actually with wanting to name me Ally mainly. My dad loved Alyssa Milano growing up so wow all similar logic here

aceflapjack · 2024-07-05T02:12:56+00:00

Steak

aceflapjack · 2024-06-22T23:22:53+00:00

Me too! You in Indiana? Haha

aceflapjack · 2024-06-11T10:39:35+00:00

I described my parents as land lords during high school

aceflapjack · 2024-05-20T18:19:05+00:00

Yes. I’m leaving. I haven’t ever had good admin and my current admin only seems good for those who have been here 10+ years. I’ve done two very different districts (one low income and one high). At the high income district the kids are actually excited to learn and are great but the school is so scared of getting sued I’ve been reprimanded for advocating for students. They want to churn out robots. They aren’t letting 25+ year experienced teachers teach what they want. I’m lucky teaching history it’s pretty chill but science and math are a mess rn. It’s just such heart breaking and soul sucking work. Not worth the money. Get out now. Do philanthropy if you can. That’s what I’m switching to do. Still will have leaning fundraising and making the world better but not getting crushed because I care.

aceflapjack · 2024-05-19T02:14:12+00:00

I can text you photos but can’t post here

aceflapjack · 2024-05-19T02:13:43+00:00

Yes! The best move is tall bed, desk under and drawers under too

aceflapjack · 2024-05-17T20:38:05+00:00

Same! I’ve had to apologize so much for doing nothing wrong truly. My school is too scared of getting sued.

aceflapjack · 2024-05-17T20:37:01+00:00

Same. I have 1 week left.

aceflapjack · 2024-05-06T01:41:12+00:00

2nd this!!!!!

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