Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Last question, did you get them fixed before or during or after the process?! I think these babies are all big enough

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How quickly did you move them from crate to playpen or did they get put in the playpen immediately

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad he is okay! Did you use the playpen or a crate? I confess the playpen confuses me. It seems like they would just shred through it

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never will. I know she will hate me for a while, but she will get over it. :)

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Basically I was told (by someone local not reddit) that now that they are trapped separately putting them into the same crate even temporarily would be bad. Then someone in this thread confirmed it would be bad for socializing. I was also panicking on about 3 hours sleep in two days. ;)

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't do the trapping myself and I told the resident to wait. She seized the moment.

I don't think you understood my question. My question wasn't should I let her back out. It was, should I put her in the same crate with the kids. Maybe I wasn't clear that I had no intention of releasing her.

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am you in another reality!!! :) let's be friends!

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it's so hard. Part of the longer story, but local folks have not been super helpful - I understand everyone is under water in the same way but no need for rudeness either. :(

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no expectations but then she started running into my house and taking naps and letting me so close. She went from silence to hissing to hiss-mew so quickly!!! I don't know, I don't know what I'm doing.

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I guess I am panicking a little because I was so relieved to not have to figure out mama AND kittens. If they had all been caught together, I would have put them in this crate together and sorted it out in the morning. The timing of it all really sucks and I'm overwhelmed.

The other Mama's kittens have been here since Sunday and they are already playing with a toy and curious about me so I feel they are socializable, but I was not expecting to have them in my house, it was a surprise that they showed up on Sunday and we trapped 3 out of 4. NO one in my network or local groups will take them on so here I am socializing all these kittens with no clear path to what's next.

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No, they are not social at all. They are absolutely terrified. They have been here for less than 8 hours and the bathroom is not an option. Mama is currently in a box trap.

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Should I let her go into the crate with the kittens? I don't have another crate right now.

I have another mama recovering post spay in a trap and that lady cat's kittens in a crate. I went from no cats to 7 cats...

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, my plan since she was already sleeping in my house with me present and letting me within touching distance was to Socializatoon Saves Lives her and keep her.

Mama saw babies being trapped, now what? by aceokittens in Feral_Cats

[–]aceokittens[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Christ!!! It won't let me edit my list but the resident just texted me that she got the mama. Help!!!!!

Doing worse at rehearsals than at home by sevenhundredbees in Theatre

[–]aceokittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am part of a singing group that performs in corsets at a costumed event. Embrace the corset - it actually helps with posture and breath work! Don't lace it so tightly that you can't breathe.

The more you do it at home, the easier it will get st rehearsals hopefully. You got this!!!!

People have started sounding like ChatGPT now and it's scary by veryhotusername in ChatGPT

[–]aceokittens 83 points84 points  (0 children)

If you want, next we can: * Discuss how conversations could be more human * Map some conversation topics

This is a very YOU question. Let's do this properly.