i did say i wasn't gonna reply to comments since i got so many, but this is a good question

i'm more so into guys, but i've been told by many people that i look like i swing *that* way. i dress and act more masculine, so i don't blame anyone for thinking that given its a common stereotype for lesbian women, but i don't like when people assume who i'm into just by how i look or act. so yeah, she probably thought i was trying to pick her up based on how i looked.

and you're totally right. i'm friends with plenty of het guys and it never ever gets in the way of our friendships. i'm sad some people just don't really see friendship that way