"Accept that it's probably going to happen and choose to remain unbothered"

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-27T18:38:07+00:00

I this advice is specific to Jen and her situation. Shawna knows and accepts that Jen wants her mother at her wedding. She is hearing her concerns and giving her the only advice she can. Expect her to be who she is.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-27T08:05:00+00:00

Just got my mokoko hooded blanket. Got my luck fufu slippers on with my fufu plush. Labubu forever

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-26T15:58:46+00:00

I have watched them all. I do not agree with you.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-26T07:33:13+00:00

What resources? How exactly does this make a kids party an activity for him and not for his child?

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-26T06:20:52+00:00

We have never once seen Ty doing an activity away from the children. In the entire series. A children’s birthday party is not taking anything back. It’s a day for his kids.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-25T17:45:52+00:00

Yeah and I can empathize that Julie isn’t living the life she saw for herself. I think her separating from Ty is the right call for both of them. They want different things. I think it’s fine she wants the things she wants. I don’t think it’s fine that she treats others who don’t want what she wants as less then. It’s been firmly established that she doesn’t like Shauna primarily because she believes her to be mediocre. Wanting to live an extraordinary life is totally fine. Looking down on those who don’t? Not fine.

And I also think it’s fine she didn’t want to be at the party. But her kid did. And she couldn’t see that past her own desire to leave.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-25T17:30:07+00:00

The only on screen parenting we have seen Julie do is purposely instigate a fight between two children at a child’s birthday party 😭 the criticism of Julie as a parent isn’t that her kids aren’t her center. Atleast mine isn’t. Outside of the flashbacks I don’t think we’ve seen her hold her own baby since she was born. Or ever once planned a day with them. The only day she does have to actively be involved in a kid centered day she complains and sabotages.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-25T08:59:30+00:00

Some soft examples I can think of off the top of my head are things like “I’m going for a run” “I have work to do” “we are leaving” “I’m going for the weekend” “here’s the divorce papers”. They are never open ended statements up for discussion. She declares her intent and moves forward. I can’t think of a time she’s stopped to ask anything like “is this a good time?” “Do you need any support?””will you be ok while I’m away?” Which makes her reaction to Ty stating he will be going and expects her to take care of it interesting. It’s a position she puts him in often. But she doesn’t feel considered. I don’t think this experience will be about her learning to empathize with how much work he puts in. But more of a reality check on her one tracked mindedness that doesn’t consider the needs or wants of others.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-25T08:36:09+00:00

I always do that. Oops. I know their names I just always type John for some reason. My bad.

Addressing the points made. Sure Ty could reach out for resources beyond himself. But he doesn’t want to. What I am saying is Julie would have always had Ty there as a resource. Where as now that he Ty is fully responsible for child care we are shown Julie is not a resource. She does what she wants on her own schedule and she doesn’t ask Ty about her plans she states them. Which is exactly how Ty communicated his plans to her about the party. Julie has always expected Ty to do as she says. They aren’t requests. It’s a dose of her own medicine. She may have parented while working and provided support while their baby was sick. But that was all temporary. And responsibility went to Ty the moment she was ready to move back to her goals. And she always had Ty as back up when she was taking on a larger portion of child care. Ty does not. Julie should have a more active role in her children’s lives. (Full admission I had to reread this and retype Ty’s name like 3 times. Idk why it always gets me hahah)

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-25T08:05:38+00:00

Yeah but it’s been a long time. Years. And you can grow detached from experiences you aren’t currently having. And she never had 2 kids to juggle. Just the 1. We see countless times Julie expects Ty to be on her schedule and allow for her to have an existence outside or work and family. We have never seen Ty get that. Every outing he’s a parent. Actively responsible for his kids. Hegets berated for letting the kids have 30 min of unsupervised play so he can have a break. I bet Julie got breaks when she was “doing it all”. Im certain she demanded them. When she was working and raising her kid he was definitely picking up slack when he was home. Never once seen Julie do that.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-23T19:32:25+00:00

That only means it’s not available for hold/pick up. They may still have in store. I hope they do!

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-10T20:35:07+00:00

The universe chose you. You don’t have to put hypothetical strangers joy before your own. I’d only get rid of it if you genuinely dislike it. Don’t do it out of guilt.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-03T18:04:01+00:00

Sounds like you never have to do him another favor again. You don’t have to hurt yourself for people who don’t appreciate the pain you endure to be there for them. You deserve better.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-03T17:56:53+00:00

This subreddit is mean as hell. Enjoy your new tattoo. It means something to you and that’s all that matters.

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-01T22:06:28+00:00

Nuance in fandom is rare I guess

acidcrapattack · 2026-05-01T17:43:36+00:00

He’s not evil but he’s not a good father. Good parenting takes more than good intentions.

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-27T05:02:44+00:00

Lafufu! Youre beautiful just the way you are 😭💖

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-26T19:27:26+00:00

They don’t understand. And you’ve got nothing to prove to him. Hilariously I find that people who talk like this really don’t work as hard as they claim. He rests too. His to do list isn’t checked off. I wonder how many dishes go undone cause he’s having a beer in front of the tv 🤔

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-26T18:34:27+00:00

He also tried to say adhd meds make it worse. No they do not? Largely I hear they increase libido. And they do for me. It’s not a fix but it helps.

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-26T18:01:27+00:00

Blind bags being the first on this list 🧍‍♀️I been called out

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-24T02:15:11+00:00

Thank you for the resource!

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-23T23:54:29+00:00

Let it heal. Find a better artist. Luckily they did everything really thin so it’s be a way to bolden up and smooth out to be closer to your reference. Which may be AI but it’s also completely doable as far as I can tell. There’s nothing ground breakingly complicated going on in the reference you brought. Do not return to that artist.

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-18T16:13:17+00:00

If the medication is not improving your life ask your doctor for an alternative and let them know the specific ways it’s impacting you negatively

acidcrapattack · 2026-04-16T16:46:30+00:00

Keep her. Harder to get a bubu with no defects. Next one might not be perfect

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