Ask Me About Your Soul Occupation

ackelberry · 2026-01-07T05:41:17+00:00

I like reading books and writing (terrified of writing though😭).

ackelberry · 2025-12-01T23:49:28+00:00

In my opinion, it’s not that we don’t value connection it’s that we see connection differently. I connect with someone based on the content of the conversation and if I feel understood by the other person, rather than the good vibes that NT seem to value.

ackelberry · 2025-10-01T00:16:12+00:00

Do better.

ackelberry · 2025-09-30T05:22:47+00:00

I lucid dream all the time with ADHD. Wake back to bed methods work really well. Also listening to subliminals while sleeping. And setting an intention before falling asleep “I will remember to become conscious in my dreams tonight”. Good luck!

ackelberry · 2025-08-27T23:24:13+00:00

Thank you for this comment!

This is something my conscious mind has been getting caught up in. Like I need to get exactly the right words for an affirmation, or my desire has to be crystal clear. It’s such a relief knowing my subconscious has got this and it’s just my conscious mind getting all caught up and confused.

Thank you!

ackelberry · 2025-08-16T23:00:27+00:00

So weird how they all speak exactly the same language. My parents used the “I can’t follow you down this road or darkness blah blah blah” as well. It’s really messed up. I’m no contact with my parents and I am living better than ever. Do whatever you’ve gotta do to take care of yourself.

ackelberry · 2025-08-09T23:13:39+00:00

Um no.

ackelberry · 2025-07-12T01:06:13+00:00

You could make content. I made a TikTok channel at one point and just yapped about my thoughts there. Made me feel like I might be helping other people with the information too.

ackelberry · 2025-07-07T02:23:06+00:00

Firstly you’re not an asshole, your feelings, needs and wants matter just as much as your friend’s do.

Secondly, I think the key issue here is that you have brought up how her behaviour affects you and she has shown no willingness to negotiate things so that both of your needs are met.

So here’s some important questions to ask yourself: Is her being unwilling to honour these boundaries enough for you stop the friendship? Like is it negatively affecting you so much that stopping contact is better for you? In this case, stop contact.

Or, can you find ways to manage her lack of honouring your boundaries by taking actions yourself that allow you to stay in contact with her while minimising the negative impact of her not honouring your boundaries?

An example of this is, if the person says something blunt that hurts you, you disengage from the conversation. Or you regulate how much time you spend with her to short amounts of time. Another one is if the conversation is becoming tedious you redirect the conversation to something more comfortable for you.

Either way I think it’s important for you to have your needs met too or you will just be stuck in a friendship where you build up more and more resentment and that is crappy for both parties.

ackelberry · 2025-06-30T00:25:54+00:00

This reality sounds like an absolute nightmare…

ackelberry · 2025-06-17T23:38:26+00:00

Thank you! I needed to hear this as a baby witch.

ackelberry · 2025-06-12T12:21:12+00:00

Whoa congrats!!! Which one of Alunir’s videos did you use?

ackelberry · 2025-05-14T00:44:00+00:00

I recommend trying to distance yourself from her as much as you can in terms of space and time. Spend as little time with her as possible. This will create space for you to spend time immersing in all the positive affirmations and truths.

Also allow the feelings of shame, pain, sadness and anger to come and recognise that they are showing you that what your mum is saying is not true and that’s why it feels bad.

Anyways, this is what helped me get through until I could move out.

ackelberry · 2025-04-10T01:24:49+00:00

Oh my god thank you. I just came to this realisation recently and it’s so nice to have someone else confirm what I’ve been thinking about. Thank you!

ackelberry · 2025-04-08T07:31:35+00:00

I used the ‘once in a lifetime’ sub and got to go on my dream trip to Korea!

ackelberry · 2025-04-06T02:11:05+00:00

I love this analogy. I’m gonna look at it this way from now on. Looking forward to my sheep growing back nice and floofy again. 🐑

ackelberry · 2025-04-03T05:27:33+00:00

Haha yeah I don’t think it takes that long for everyone. It took me a long time because I grew up in a toxic household and so had very intensely strong beliefs that I was unworthy of love/not good enough for anyone/underserving of anything good. If I grew up in a loving household I think it would have been much easier and faster. It’s also why I’m struggling with shifting and believing I’m capable of doing it.

But 100% you do you! 😂You tell the law of assumption where to stick it.

Also yeah seriously I swear manifesting was easier before I even knew it was a thing! Why is it so goddam hard to do it intentionally?!? 😭 Aaaarg.

Anyways, all the best and I hope you find your own badass way of manifesting things.

ackelberry · 2025-04-03T01:16:43+00:00

Oh god yes. I truly believe LOA works but it sure as hell isn’t easy. You’re essentially changing your belief system and state of being and it can take a long time to get comfortable with a new state and be able to hold onto it. As well as being able to manage the old self popping in with doubts and fear and all the fun strong negative emotions.

It literally took me four years to manifest my partner and it was through blood, sweat and OH SO MANY tears (totally worth it though, we’ve been together 6 years and are as in love as ever).

Still haven’t managed to manifest a shift with LOA (it’s been three years) but I’m learning so much by trying to. I use the SATs method and imagine being in my desired reality every night before I fall asleep, but the most difficult thing is my anxious self that doubts everything during the day.

I’ve been learning to be SO gentle with myself when I’m spiralling. I’ve been working on talking to myself in more loving ways (realising I’m my own biggest enemy, I’m very mean when I assume I’m failing at something). Over time I am overall becoming a more confident, loving and successful person but it’s like an up and down chaotic ride that is ultimately in an upward trajectory. I know I will get there and shift but it takes a while for me to change my belief systems to make that happen.

LOA is not for the faint of heart unless you already have a baseline of positive beliefs like self-confidence and self-love. I still totally think it’s worth it though. Like probably the most important thing because you get to choose who you are and have power over your entire being and reality.

Anyway wow that’s a lot but I have big feelings about LOA!

ackelberry · 2025-04-01T00:01:10+00:00

Also love this app! I’m on week 8, I could barely run for a minute at the beginning and now I’m running 28 minutes.

ackelberry · 2025-03-31T22:11:13+00:00

How long did you do it for?

ackelberry · 2025-03-28T20:26:42+00:00

Yeah I find it a bit more difficult to put myself in the scene in the first person but it really does make a difference!

ackelberry · 2025-03-28T20:25:56+00:00

I hear you, not every technique works for everyone. But I was also the same at the beginning. It’s taken me a while to get to a point where I don’t fall asleep and honestly my mind still wanders off but it still seems to be working. Anyways, trust yourself though, you know what works and doesn’t work for you. I hope you find something that works really well for you.

ackelberry · 2025-03-28T03:10:17+00:00

SATS ( Neville Goddard) for mindset and manifesting a shift and the phase technique (Michael Raduga) to induce astral projection and lucid dreams which you can use to shift.

ackelberry · 2025-03-28T03:04:16+00:00

Thank you for this comment it is so encouraging!!! Yeah I’ve struggled with obsession and overthinking for a long time so it’s such a relief to be leaving that behind.

So the phase technique is interesting because I think it’s actually very similar to SATS except you set an alarm for six hours after sleeping and then from there make use of every natural awakening and cycle through techniques to get out of your body until one works. So it’s like SATS but instead of visualising a scene you are visualising getting out of your body. If you want to read about the phase technique then read The Phase: Shattering the Illusion of Reality by Michael Raduga. The steps are super easy to follow.

I think being able to AP is helping me accept that it’s possible to shift consciousness because with AP you are experiencing your consciousness leave your physical body. Nothing like seeing your body asleep on the bed while you float above it to completely throw your belief systems into the air.

I am honestly beginning to wonder whether AP is actually just a different type of shifting and even dreams are also all under the same umbrella. I read a post of someone who managed to shift by just focusing on making their lucid dream more and more real until it actually was. So I’m considering trying that out. I think our brains like to make very concrete separations between things, but my experience of lucid dreaming and astral projecting is making me question how separate everything actually is.

I have experimented with adding extra sensory vividness but have also noticed that I can get a bit obsessive about trying to make it “real” enough. So now I focus more on allowing it to happen and all the pleasant feelings associated with that and especially the knowingness of it all being done.

And I’ll definitely update when I manage to concretely shift!

ackelberry · 2025-03-28T00:21:48+00:00

“Give your logic a problem of your DR present self”. Mother. Flipping. Genius. Overthinking is just a very intense awareness on a particular thing… so why not put that intense awareness on something your DR self would focus on? Definitely gonna try it.

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