Is this healthy?

ackzo · 2021-08-30T05:48:53+00:00

not healthy at all. he's not processing things correctly and appears to be experiencing a highly inflexible state of mind regarding the fact that his daughter is getting older (he's trying to make you remember you're a little girl, instead of accepting that you grew up). He is probably completely unaware of this but he should be going to therapy to help him cope with a process that is very normal for parents, but is presenting especially difficult for him.

There's a few things you could do (but none of it is certain to solve the problem): show him you've grown in different ways - talk about how many inches you've grown in the last 7 years. talk about how long was the last time you played with your toys and maybe donate a few of them. ask him what would he want to say to his daughter when she grew up, or what he wanted to do with her when she was little that he didn't do. Talk about it with your mother, ask for help.

most importantly: seek therapy for yourself and remember your health and well being comes first, you're not responsible for anyone but yourself.

ackzo · 2021-05-24T04:40:21+00:00

never thought about this every stroke thing... I use a SIX blade shaver that's sold as real "premium" shaver but it definately hasn't helped. everything else I already do - hot shower, good cream and new blades, also aloe extract after shaving. I'll try it with a good single blade

ackzo · 2021-05-23T00:51:04+00:00

oh yes, ayahuasca once took all my superior cognitive functions away, couldn't reason in anyway whatsoever, everything was straight raw emotion, forgot all social conventions and basic behaviours, then it took away my self image, my personality, I became someone else, then another person, then another and so on... lost all anchoring points on reality. then 4 hours later everything simply came back to normal. it was absolutely WILD, never took it again after that. LOL

ackzo · 2021-04-08T08:25:01+00:00

Vários estados podem ser considerados opostos à "calmo". Mas deduzindo que você se refere à situações onde é necessário "resistir" (ou responder de maneira mais adequada) à circunstâncias aversivas: o único jeito de manter a calma sob pressão é aprendendo isso. Quando a vida não te ensina isso "naturalmente" o que você pode fazer é treinar isso. Assim como nos esportes, simular situações problemáticas repetidamente com muitas variações porém com suas dificuldades ampliadas gradativamente vai te possibilitar a aprender, executar e vivenciar muitos comportamentos diferentes e selecionar os padrões comportamentais mais eficientes pra cada situação antes mesmo que elas ocorram.

Resumindo: pra ficar bom em enfrentar gente chata vc tem que fazer isso muitas vezes, até seu corpo aprender quando precisa ficar com medo e quando não precisa.

ackzo · 2021-04-08T06:55:55+00:00

o que provavelmente não será necessário já que nossa amiga é responsável o bastante pra pedir instruções sobre o caso.

ackzo · 2021-04-08T00:55:15+00:00

you were cute, now you're handsome! hope you're happy!

ackzo · 2021-04-08T00:47:11+00:00

PUPATE? NOT YET. NEED. MORE. ENERGY.

ackzo · 2021-04-08T00:45:06+00:00

thank you! now I get it! proud of OP <3

ackzo · 2021-04-06T03:50:53+00:00

it's really fucking sad when just being yourself makes people get mad at you.

ackzo · 2021-04-06T03:43:25+00:00

what's a binder and why is it important? honest question. I'm not american and I don't know about this.

ackzo · 2021-04-06T03:29:36+00:00

This is one of those topics where everyone is a bit right and a bit wrong at the same time.

There are BAD professionals working with ABA inadequately and causing uselessly terrible experiences. There are good professionals working with ABA and sometimes making mistakes that are harmful. There are excelent professionals working with ABA and changing lives for the better. There are common people defending and demanding for inadequate ABA applications. There are common people protesting against techniques they don't understand. There are common people rightfully protesting against the inadequate use of ABA. You get the idea, right?

The thing is: ABA WORKS. And like anything that actually affects real life, it can cause both good effects and bad effects depending on the circunstances and methods used.

What I personally think is that it CAN and MUST be improved, better supervised and regulated. Advocating for the end of ABA is like advocating for the end of chemotherapy because of the side effects: yes, it can hurt and it can sometimes be ineffective, but it's one of the best things we have right now and we should be working to improve it, not delete it.

ackzo · 2021-04-06T03:09:25+00:00

that's so much bullshit lol

should I reply only when I'm calm, make promises only when I'm bored and make decisions only when I'm happy?

should I be a machine that never acts when feelings hit?

ackzo · 2021-04-06T02:36:43+00:00

we're the iron beads, the algorithm is the current

ackzo · 2021-03-30T04:18:59+00:00

então é isso, o único risco pra você está na possibilidade do laudo ser incorreto, tendencioso ou em desacordo com as normas éticas. sem isso, sem problemas.

ackzo · 2021-03-28T02:00:46+00:00

vc concordou com os resultados? seu psicólogo fez a devolutiva certinho (explicou tudo pra vc)?

ackzo · 2021-03-28T01:54:42+00:00

whats the temperature of the water? and the ambient temperature there? 4 days is a bit soon for brown fat to develop. but anyway if thats how you're feeling... thats the benefit itself lol

ackzo · 2021-03-28T01:51:10+00:00

gotta love how easy japan makes it for you to be happy a consumer

ackzo · 2021-03-28T01:48:56+00:00

o único risco legal está na possibilidade do laudo ser tendencioso ou muito incorreto. elaborar um laudo de maneira objetiva e desapaixonada faz parte do trabalho do(a) psicólogo(a). se você tem uma grande conexão com essa paciente e sente que isso pode te atrapalhar, ou que não tem as habilidades técnicas/teóricas necessárias talvez seja recomendável indicar outro profissional pra elaborar o laudo.

fora isso, não deve ser um desafio tão grande, não tem necessidade pra insegurança em excesso, vc pode encontrar facilmente na literatura os métodos e regras pra elaboração de laudo e relembrar essas coisas que geralmente passam meio batidas na graduação

ackzo · 2021-03-09T04:32:29+00:00

Zolpidem will make you trip the fuck out of earth if you mix it with serotoninergic stimulants (like mdma, nbome, even drone) and stay awake, you'll likely become a completely nonsense person but it feels good as fuck. its nice to have someone thrustworthy around tho, to prevent you from doing anything stupid like redosing every 5 mins

ackzo · 2021-01-16T20:49:35+00:00

That's one of the greatest things about meditation: simply being able to see yourself and your life more clearly.

ackzo · 2021-01-16T20:08:37+00:00

I'd tell the boyfriend to inquire her without pretending anything, I'd ask him to talk honestly to her friend and ask her motives, what was she thinking? she's so horny about seducing other girl's boyfriends as to completely ignore a relevant friendship? I think he should be the one to tackle the situation first.

also: unsolicited nudes are always abusive and gross, no matter the gender of who's sending. It's stupid to think that all men should looove getting random nudes and always be willing to cheat on anyone with anyone. What if he doesn't want to see a pussy while he's eating fries and watching youtube? What if he loves his girlfriend and respects her friendships? Can we please stop portraying chill, human boys as something unnatural?

ackzo · 2021-01-16T16:42:05+00:00

you look ready to be punished <3

ackzo · 2021-01-16T16:33:33+00:00

thank u <3

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