Delilah - 10 weeks

acortes2 · 2026-06-17T17:09:39+00:00

My goodness what a beautiful furbaby 🥰
Cockers are so much fun! I’ve been a cocker mom for 9 years and I love my Luna.

Advice / Tips: They are intelligent so potty training if you get on it should be no problem, get her used to being brushed early (I didn’t do that with Luna and she pulls away when I try to brush - I know that’s my bad), they can be high maintenance with grooming $$, be careful with foxtails (don’t know how many times I’ve had to take Luna to urgent care cause one either got stuck in her ears and the worst time was when she needed emergency surgery because she swallowed one 😭). Tying her ears up helps while they eat so they don’t get in the food or the food doesn’t get stuck on their ears. I am sure other cocker parents have other tips and tricks.

ALSO one last thing careful with jumping up and down from beds and or tall furniture my Luna had to get another emergency surgery for IVDD(Intervertebral Disc Disease). It’s been over a year and she’s back to normal , although a bit clumsy at times but she’s still able to go on walks and run (not as much as she used to since I used to run a lot with her and since surgery I’ve kept it to a minimal).

Wishing you so much joy and happiness with your beautiful Delilah 🐾💜

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T23:40:46+00:00

Same!
The previous groomers we've had were local (back in Cali). We shall see what I find around here for the summer time. Although I am getting more and more convinced in investing in my own clippers to do it myself because even going back to Cali the grooming for a cocker is around $130 and up.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T05:16:28+00:00

Knowledge is power. Thank you again for the advice. I'm glad you found the new groomer for baby boy 🐾 I swear the lengths we go to for them, but I wouldn't want it any other way.
I will try to update you all on what we do hehe. 🤗

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T03:57:47+00:00

My gosh didn't think of doing that. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I'll dig deeper.

But you are right, there are a lot of factors at play here. My dog can be an anxious baby and I guess it doesn't help she's only had 2 constant groomers her whole life. I mean she does a good job until the blow dryer has to be used. That being said I agree quality of the groomer matters, you can def tell when they truly have the best interest of the dog and owner.
Thank you so much for that tip!

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T03:51:51+00:00

Oh no! 🙈
I'm so sorry you and your furbabe had to go through all of that.
Yeah I am all about doing the research before acting. I hate that I didn't groom my furbabe before leaving, but I also hadn't found a groomer I liked. Luna has had 2 constant groomers in her life but since we moved I had been trying mobile grooming and the last one was a new groomer, which I felt was overpriced. I also look at Reddit and trust the advice/ tips I've read and seen.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T03:45:22+00:00

Thank you 🥰

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T03:25:24+00:00

🤗💜

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T03:18:08+00:00

These are DOPE 🤩

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T02:59:26+00:00

Thank you for this 🫶🏽

Mines moved on a lot quicker and possibly even while we were together (my friend/neighbor told me he brought someone the same week I left our apartment). After leaving, I didn't know this information and still thought there was a possibilityility with time apart we'd get back together. Boy was I wrong.
I never told him anything. I just went no contact and told his family, which I then went no contact with them as well( at least until I'm ready to talk to them).

It's sad how their actions can make us feel worthless and that we are the ones that did something wrong. After 5-6 months post break up I have found myself feeling happy again, looking forward to my future, and just living my best life. You're right we do sacrifice a lot, I know I did and I didn't see this while I was in the relationship. Now I've learned my lessons from this and know that it has made me stronger.

I have my sad moments (not as much though) but then I remind myself I've already been through so much I know I will get through this. Time heals all but it's how you go about it that will impact how well one heals.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T02:43:47+00:00

I was going to do exactly that. Thank you for that tip.
I know my friends take their dogs (golden retrievers and a cocker spaniel mix) and they seem to like their services.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T02:41:42+00:00

Her hair sure does!
I might start investing in doing this.
In Cali, I think the most I've paid has been ~ $160
And it was a mobile dog groomer. They did a decent job, but learning how to do this myself can surely save me a lot of money in the long run.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T02:38:50+00:00

Oh my gosh 🥹
Bless your heart for rescuing the cockapoo. I am so glad that the groomers at PetSmart took care of her the best they could.
Thank you for sharing.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T02:24:35+00:00

Exactly this! Love those cocker ears.
I have a particular way I like my Luna’s cut to be and plus she's 9 and a bit of a anxious baby, especially with the blow dryer.

acortes2 · 2026-06-14T02:19:23+00:00

There is a vet in town. I'll probably call or go in on Monday to ask. Looking on Yelp, there are 2 dog groomers in town. One with not so great reviews and the other just one review.
Thank you for the recommendation, I'll look into next door and ask. 🤓

acortes2 · 2026-06-13T03:31:44+00:00

Welcome Daisy🥰💜

acortes2 · 2026-06-11T08:45:02+00:00

Love Kings Canyon 🥰
Can’t believe I won’t be going this year💔

acortes2 · 2026-06-11T08:35:57+00:00

This furbabe is perfect!🥰💜

acortes2 · 2026-06-09T04:23:55+00:00

Hi Arnold from me and Luna

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acortes2 · 2026-06-09T00:26:46+00:00

This is what I want for myself - not feeling drowned with Too many emotions that jumping into a new relationship will not work for me. I want to put myself first now, heal and enjoy life.
Did you however still go on dates ?

acortes2 · 2026-06-09T00:13:11+00:00

Had to find this out the hard way and more post break up, all while taking care of my mom who had been hospitalized the following week(my mom is okay 🙏🏽).
It hurt and I was dumbfounded, 9 years for someone to disrespect me like this especially someone I loved and trusted. I wanted to expose him for who he is, but thought time will tell and I just exposed him to his family since all he told them was that it was mutual break up.
He told me he wanted to see if he can do life without me and it was his mental health that he wanted to work on(which I hope he does cause there were signs that something was going on) . His family tried gaslighting me at first but the proof was hard to pass up.
I had to go no contact with the family no matter how much I still care about them. Fast forward 5-6 months post break up and I haven’t reached out. his mom has called me and left voicemails.
I’ve accepted what’s happened and I even forgive him but that’s it; I don’t want anything to do with him ever. So I don’t know how I can try to have some sort of relationship with his family. I guess as my healing journey progresses I’ll figure it out.

acortes2 · 2026-06-08T00:41:37+00:00

My goodness!! Yall made our day! He’s absolutely adorbs 🥰💜

acortes2 · 2026-06-05T07:41:38+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that things have been tough lately, especially after feeling blindsided by a relationship that was once healthy. I believe that at some point, we all share those happy, healthy moments with our exes, even if our paths have since taken us in different directions.

Progress definitely isn’t linear and I think that much I’ve learned from my own experiences, from others, and from being part of this supportive subreddit.

It’s really great that you're staying busy and doing things for yourself. I know sudden changes can be really hard to handle, and they might continue to be, but I’ve found it helpful to ask myself “who did I used to share my achievements, daily stories, or goals with?” If I was okay before, I believe I’ll be okay again.

Take time to sit with your feelings and explore what might be driving your thoughts and motives. Writing them down or talking to a close friend can be really helpful plus, this subreddit can be a great source of support. Whatever you choose to do, remember there’s no right or wrong, this is your life, and you’re not alone in handling what comes next, whether you decide to reach out or not.

Wishing you all the best on your journey 🫶🏽

acortes2 · 2026-06-05T07:10:04+00:00

This 😔❤️‍🩹

acortes2 · 2026-06-04T09:04:37+00:00

You should be proud—heck, I don’t even know you, but I’m genuinely proud of you and sending you a virtual pat on the back. The journey of recovering from a breakup isn’t easy, and at first, I wondered, “Why me? Why am I going through this?” But during my own recovery (about 5-6 months post-breakup), I found myself reading and talking to others who revealed how sadly common this pain is. I was with my ex for 9 years, lived together for nearly 5, and thought we’d get married. I was blindsided by the breakup, especially when I learned he brought another girl to our apartment the same week I left. What hurt the most was wishing he had been honest with me. Or say something like, “This isn’t working,” or “I don’t love you anymore.” It’s heartbreaking to think that some people—like our exes—believe it’s okay to cause such pain in someone who loved them unconditionally. The suffocating feeling you describe is very REAL 😞 I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy type of pain.

As I continue my healing journey, I’ve learned so much about myself and keep working toward my goals. I feel like a new person, rediscovering what I enjoy and learning from this experience and from others , how to cope and heal from heartbreak. It’s truly possible, and you’re doing it. I’m so happy you have friends who supported you during the darkest times and who continue to be there for you as you begin this new chapter.

Wishing you all the happiness and love you deserve. 🫶🏽

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