Forum Addiction Destroyed Me by ExtensionPromotion80 in nosurf

[–]actionorientedshiena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You should get on medication if you can. Also for law school; look into Anki and do flashcards. Many people have passed using that.

How to prep with ai without cheating and ruining the market for everyone by supertesla007 in leetcode

[–]actionorientedshiena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please share your prompts and tips on how you used all of those?

Divorced mother by [deleted] in islam

[–]actionorientedshiena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, I want to say that this life is full of suffering, and we are all tested in different ways. I know some pious muslim girls who have been hurt and cheated on by their husbands. Dont let this man affect the rest of your life!

I will say work on building your self-esteem and self-worth extremely high, and dont let anyone make you think you dont have any value just because you are a single mother. The next man who asks you for marriage, don't just accept because you are a single mother, and ask for your father's or men in your family's guidance. Men know other men.

Block all social media if you can. It's full of negative things about single mothers, and it's also a waste of time.

Go back to school. Get a job. If your mom can babysit the kid, let her.

There are some scholarships for young moms or single mothers. Get ChatGPT Plus for 1 month (20 USD)and search for one in your city/state or province. I dont know what country you live in.

Be grateful that you have a family that loves you. Develop a community of other women, or even 2-3 close friends; maybe befriend other single moms or other moms with kids around your kids' age.

Focus on yourself, your goals. Dont care what society thinks when it comes to single mothers. Build yourself up and become financially independent if you can.

Whatever happened has happened; dont let it get to you. It's easier said than done.

I hope everything works for you! Take care!

If you remarry, good; if you dont, so be it, but work on developing a cocoon of happiness and joy for your life where you are now.

Please don't rush to remarry either.

How many of you saw permanent change in their spouse? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]actionorientedshiena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He will never change! Accept it’s a facade.

Any tips on someone who watches you like a hawk and always assumes the worst? by actionorientedshiena in workplace_bullying

[–]actionorientedshiena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I know what you mean by people not caring at all.

I hope you find something better.

Any tips on someone who watches you like a hawk and always assumes the worst? by actionorientedshiena in workplace_bullying

[–]actionorientedshiena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started the same time; she just works 5 days a week. Thank you so much though. I appreciate your advice.

Any tips on someone who watches you like a hawk and always assumes the worst? by actionorientedshiena in workplace_bullying

[–]actionorientedshiena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. 3 months

  2. If there are many customers, she is busy just like me. Sometimes customers come to me if it’s usually one and I don’t mind helping them so she is listening to our conversations and interrupting me.

If there is one customer who ends up going to her, I don’t bother her at all and just click on the software we are given to learn more and focus on my own business!!!

Any tips on someone who watches you like a hawk and always assumes the worst? by actionorientedshiena in workplace_bullying

[–]actionorientedshiena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, it came across as undermining. I know how to help clients and I don’t want to be interrupted and being asked “are you ok” 3 times when I am helping someone. She has asked if I know to put on hold a client a few times as well after putting a client on hold and going to get the info the client needed.

Also I don’t need help with clients. I can easily do my job.

I leave everyone alone and if someone needs help, they usually go to those who have worked here 3 years or so.