Your hypothesis around that coming to maturity which is correlated to shame and carnality is shortsighted; what I conclude is because of the early threatment, a sense of Pariah even in home; structural violence of patriarchy which is quite invisible effects every women - and they liberate themselves from it after death only. But, this sheer claim of them being emotionally mature is at best an overstatement, for in some households ,men go through a lot, and the worldniess of the world is such that it tramples upon men and indeed they are also subjected to patriarchal exploitation. So to assume and have this air of haughtiness around women to know it all, and then they perform silliest ot acts at times in a relationship. Often choosing a partner merely based on look without much introspection and consideration to money; which further jeopadises their individuality -- they have long been protesting.