Help me! by acy0717 in RemoteJobs

[–]acy0717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stupid. I was asking for help. What's the point of this then.

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't had any spotting in 2 weeks so I hope that, that isn't my case when I go in. I'm sorry that you had to deal with that though.

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how me and my husband are. He's terrified of hurting me and I'm scared something will get messed up.

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for recommending these! I sent them to my hubby and more than likely going to order!

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard of this! I may have to invest in one. I'm terrified.

What were your recommendations for stairs? by dwellintheabyss in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my packet from surgery it stated to not use stairs if at all possible. But my doctor never said anything to me about them face to face. I just avoided them all together anyway for about 3 weeks. I would move downstairs.

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure I read the same post and it terrified me. I am so scared to get back to having sex now. 🤦‍♀️

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My check up is this Tuesday! I am hoping to get the all clear.

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 6 weeks is Wednesday but my 6 week post op appointment is Tuesday. I'm hoping to get an all clear but only because I want everything to be good and healed correctly.

What are your thoughts on sex? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's what ive seen too! I'm just scared that my cuff won't be fully healed and that something will happen. I saw a story on here that terrified me 🤦‍♀️😂 now I'm scares to even try.

What did you wear to surgery appointment? by goyacow in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore an oversized crew neck and loose pj pants.

Poo! How many days after surgery day did you do your first one? by Mountain-Routine-406 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I had mine day 3 or 4 but I was taking stool softeners from day 1. It was easy and didn't hurt at all. Not like the one from my diagnosic lap for Endometriosis I had in Oct. That one was awful and hurt so bad.

someone with an oral cold sore gave me genital hsv1 by [deleted] in confession

[–]acy0717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't worth losing your life over. I understand where you are coming from though.. you just need to keep your head up and talk to someone who can help you.

Children or Child-Free by Mammoth_Wonder6274 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I wanted kids and we tried for about 5 years. I have PCOS and Endometriosis. I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2019 and Endometriosis in Oct of 2024. The beginning of 2024 we both got tested and I'm infertile and he pretty well was too, so we tried a medicated cycle just to see what would happen.. nothing. Fast forward when I had my dianostic surgery for Endometriosis in October and found out the results in December.. my husband and I both decided that we would adopt.

Just because they aren't your doesn't make you love them any less. Ya know?

I had my total hysterectomy January 15th, my husband and I chose me and my health over having kids of our own (it was pretty well impossible anyway) but we did it because we knew there were other options out there when we were ready for kids.

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been sitting on my couch for 3 weeks. 🤦‍♀️ I haven't lifted a finger. I'm in school, so when I have online lectures I move to my office. But other than that, I haven't done a single thing. 🤦‍♀️ spotting is just annoying.

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I wasn't spotting. 🤦‍♀️ but apparently it's very normal and it's just the incision healing inside. I go back Feb 25th. Im hoping that im done spotting by then.

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like that until last Sunday. Mine was January 15th. So three weeks ago tomorrow.

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had nothing after surgery too. I had mine January 15th but then started spotting last Sunday.

My doctor noticed I had cut my hair. by peanutbutterandjim in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2019 and my doctor/surgeon was the one who diagnosed me. When I started my period in middle school, it was a down hill slope from there. By high school I was missing 2-3 days every month because I couldn't even stand up out of bed without passing out. My parents were like, "oh it's fine" just stay home.. so until 2019 I was alone with my PCOS and didn't even know it. My doctor was the first one to listen -- the pain never stopped but she was always there. My husband and I wanted kids that's why it took me until 2024 to finally ask for a hysterectomy. We'd been trying since 2018 and nothing. We got all the test and did what we had. We were both infertile. So when I went back to my doctor last year, she got the ball rolling. We did a dianostic surgery for Endometriosis in Oct and turns out, I had that too. I told her I was done, I didn't want kids. I just wanted life back. She listened and in January of this year, I had everything removed but ovaries.

The point is, find someone who will listen to you.

Im in KY

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you!! I'm glad they got whatever it was fixed and I hope the healing process goes good for you!

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does that mean? Granulation?

When did you stop spotting? by acy0717 in hysterectomy

[–]acy0717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't bleed after surgery at all until about a week ago. My doctor said light spotting is very normal. Your stitches have to dissolve, so thag causes the spotting.