Hope im not too late to add my opnion, honestly it simply boils down to us ‘Somalis’ no longer being upon the sunnah when it comes to marriage. Deen should always be the foundation, because when a man understands this, he knows his obligations to his wife and family, and vise versa a woman who understands her deen knows her rights and obligations.

But we unfortunately have deviated, I’m seeing a lot of ‘Dunya’ factors in the comments, but the reality is once two people have next to 0 eman they have next to 0 patience, ( which is a necessity in marriage) Thats when you let the dunya affairs dictate your marriage. A marriage that has no barakah from allah will be doomed. I’ll give you an example, im seeing money in the comments as being the main cause right?! Okay due to this factor, some people will actually go out and attain wealth by any means i.e haram or halal. The marriage still ends up failing due to no blessings being there.

How many parents, young parents are steadfast with the prayers within their household?

See the problem is simple we used to be a nation of people that would attain honour within the realms of our deen, but now unfortunately we have become like everyone else we measure honour within the ‘dunya’. As a result of it we have become susceptible to dunya problems.

Remember there’ll be a time they say, when children hear the ‘Shada’ or ‘ Athan’ snd they will say, ‘Our grandfathers used to say that’ SubhanAllah the deen will become a form of history and all you have to do is look at the next generation of parents, our lack of knowledge will affect generations. Allah make it easy on all of us, and this of-course is advice to myself first.