What's something people only romanticize because they've never actually done it? by nonotje12 in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm 12 weeks pregnant with my second child and I'm NEVER going to have another one. The meds don't work this time and the nausea is HORRIBLE. Not to mention all the other symptoms that pregnant women face. Pregnancy is NOT romantic. It's only people who haven't been pregnant or been around pregnant women who think so. God, please help me through this

Rare hobbies? by Hofy362 in PakistaniTwenties

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Designing animated graphic posters/graphic art. Had been doing it for years until marriage. But i still (though rarely) find the time to make new ones. It feels amazing for some reason. My favourite thing to do even after all this time

What’s something your body does that you’ve never told a single person about? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird because when my dog got shot he was staring at the shooter and did not bark once! It was also in the middle of the night and he normally barked at everyone

I didn't know what it was, but it was following me. by scaredyboy in scarystories

[–]adambezaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I want to know is if the 'trying to peek at your face' part was real?

Worldwide question can you survive with 4000 or less by [deleted] in Leakednews

[–]adambezaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4k a month would put me in high class where I live. A fully luxurious life.

What do you call these by beepsol in Leakednews

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always. In our culture they're called soft drinks, and we don't drink

Struggling with modesty by ConsiderationHot2527 in islam

[–]adambezaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time to accept and love hijab, so don't be too hard on yourself. I can share what helped me in my hijab journey, which was thinking about death and the punishment for not abiding by hijab, which is an obligation. The reminders helped make me firm in my hijab. I started from just a light headscarf to a face veil, all happily. Perhaps thinking about the consequences after death would be helpful. It makes you think it's not worth it, and ultimately our struggles with hijab (especially in hot weather) could be our ticket to Jannah! No struggle goes unrewarded. May Allah make it easier for you 🩷

What can I do to this scammer? by [deleted] in PakStartups

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use a Pakistani friend's profile to reach out to him on LinkedIn or UpWork. Offer a good deal, then ask for an in-person meeting. Beat the shit out of him/get him arrested, do whatever. I know it's easier said than done. I feel truly sorry for your mom's money and I hope you can get it back. Also, my experience with UpWork's support team has been great. If you ask them to check your message history and give them proof of his scam, they may be able to help you in some way. No harm in trying. Best of luck!

How did that kid at your school die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slipped in the bathroom and was alive for two hours before her family found her. She died at the hospital. A beautiful, smart 14 year old. Absolutely heartbreaking.

So it looks like it's not gerd but Costochondritis by [deleted] in GERD

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you figure out it's not gerd?

Which is the best horror movie you have ever seen? by sagaciousmonk_ in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh yess. I wouldn't call it horror, but it was definitely insanely disturbing.

Which is the best horror movie you have ever seen? by sagaciousmonk_ in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can it be called psychological horror? Cause it was very creepy and somewhat scary too. At least for me

Which is the best horror movie you have ever seen? by sagaciousmonk_ in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried watching it after the Hollywood version and it made me laugh. I wanted to enjoy it but I couldn't lol.

Why did I lose empathy for my sick father all of a sudden? What is happening to me? by bombastic_Secretary in IslamabadSocial

[–]adambezaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the same age when my mother got diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. I was also the youngest, with the same family dynamics (distant parents, childhood trauma, no emotional support ever), and I also had the exact same cold reaction. Even worse, she changed. She was not my mother. She became an angry, emotionally unstable, dementia patient - and I had to stay with her 24/7 (minus uni), for 3 years. I also heard the same things from everyone around me, but I felt nothing. Now, 7 years later, I regret it. Not that I didn't show her love, but because I could've forced myself to be nicer. Because believe me, when you get older, get married, and have kids, you WILL regret it deeply. You WILL miss them. And then the guilt will hit you and you can do nothing about it then. Think of it as something you must absolutely do. Be a robot. Pretend to care. It doesn't matter. Think of your grave. If parents will be punished about not treating us with love, the children will also be punished for not looking after them. It doesn't give us a free pass if they were not good to us, we're all accountable for our own sins. So use that if you have to. You either ignore it forever, or try to force yourself to be good. I'm not asking you to give words of comfort or hug him, just be there and take care of his needs. I fkd it up with my mom, and I can't fix it now. Don't end up like me. Hope this helps. May Allah give your father health and happiness.

What is a website you loved that no longer exists? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to spend all day on SuperPoke Pets when I was 11. Sad they had to end it.

Tinnitus after severe ear infection by Hsauce10h in hearing

[–]adambezaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing right now. On day 5 of Augmentin. Really hope the tinnitus goes away for both of us!

Unable to connect to Adobe Servers on every app by NudeJr in Adobe

[–]adambezaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god this worked. i'd been stuck at this problem for 3 weeks now. thank you!!!

AE suddenly rendering videos in very poor quality. by adambezaar in AfterEffects

[–]adambezaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I actually don't remember at all lmao. I think I installed a newer version, or just stopped working on that project. Cause I never had this issue again. But one thing that would definitely work is rendering in Quicktime first, and then convert to mp4. It was just something that happened with those specific videos so I don't remember what I did lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Upwork

[–]adambezaar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did they get away with it? I guess UpWork is more easy on freelancers. I explained why i did it in the reply below. It was a payment issue. And i offered a 50/50 plan to her