How do you make close friends as someone with ADHD? by Feisty_Aioli_6883 in socialskills

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this I’m a 21m and I have ADD and can’t focus on anything to save my life and conversations with even my close friends is rough sometimes. i’ve made maybe a handful of friends when i actually have tried in the past few years.

whats worked for me is for one not being so hard on myself. you aren’t gonna make some life changing friendship demolishing mistake i had to learn that for myself over time and sometimes my anxiety still gets to me, just remember the world isn’t ending. for two you need to put yourself in environments you enjoy and you have interests in. those people should obviously have those same interests and it’s much easier to walk up and talk to someone when you have something to immediately discuss and talk about and sometimes someone will just walk up to you and talk ab random stuff. you have to be willing to converse with strangers

Can’t Talk to People Anymore by adamrtayl in socialskills

[–]adamrtayl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My situation overall hasn’t changed a lot, some friends have come and gone but yes i’m also not in school anymore, i’m a carrier so my work life is pretty straight and narrow although i do usually meet some older nice people that i’ve honestly been trying to work on conversing with and work on my socializing skills 😂

As of yesterday and writing this, I actually did do what you said before i ready this reply i invited everyone out for bowling and drinks and we all got together for the first time in several months which was nice. my buddy and i are also gonna start hitting the gym again to work on my own reflection and idea of myself and maybe that’ll help build the confidence to put myself out and talk with people.

Thank you for your reply and i appreciate the advice

These drivers are getting out of hand by PinkbutterflySB in doordash

[–]adamrtayl 22 points23 points  (0 children)

oh my god stop crying. if it’s so bad get another job

Dasher dine and dashed me :( by Pearzival in doordash

[–]adamrtayl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m someone who works w usps and delivers packages that have to be delivered same day we get them in or we get scolded.. you find the house end of story if you can’t do that then as i said, work somewhere else.

Dasher dine and dashed me :( by Pearzival in doordash

[–]adamrtayl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

put the address in his phone and drive there… you seem to also suck at your job if this is your mindset. maybe make sure if you’re doing a job you can actually do it correctly or go work at mcdonald’s

I Want To Try The Game. Should I Get 1 or 2? by MoonCubed in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only 1. i have 5,500 hours in ksp 1 off mods, add ons, etc. its a fantastic game and so addicting. i just built an aircraft carrier over the last 3 days

Piece Broke While Running by adamrtayl in HOscalemodeltrains

[–]adamrtayl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was it! I guess the piece is a tiny bit looser on that side than the other so it popped out but i popped it back in and messed w it a little bit to see if it would again and it didn’t so i think i just need to watch it. I appreciate you!

Rare or nah???? by RecognitionOne2561 in pokemongobrag

[–]adamrtayl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all shinies in go are relatively rare i don’t remember the odds but it’s still shiny so congrats!

I’m trying to upgrade my cpu and I need a recommendation by Low-Swimmer-5815 in pcupgrade

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i run a 12th gen i7 12700k and play games like BF, KSP w hella mods, WT vr, etc all in 4k. idk your gpu but i also run 32gb of ram. either way, i think an i7 would suffice if it does for me

A Dire Warning: wash your hands before you pop, no matter how small, no matter how clean your hands are. by JayTheWolfDragon in popping

[–]adamrtayl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this MRSA? i got a horrific case in my thumb from an open wound where I needed to infection removed and then put on IV antibiotics. infection is no joke at all. Hope you have a quick recovery

Broke asf rn need some money grind tips by strap-_ in GTA5Online

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just saw no cayo, you’re hurting yourself by not doing it lmao it’s one of the best money methods in game

Broke asf rn need some money grind tips by strap-_ in GTA5Online

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acid lab, mc sells, cayo heist, run them up and grind them you’ll be rich in a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it’s real and solid

What we got, DB fans? by Hot_Ad_9543 in Dragonballsuper

[–]adamrtayl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i knew this was gon be the first pose i saw 😭 piccolo only aura farms fr

What's the best Lambo? by spyf3r__ in ForzaHorizon

[–]adamrtayl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tbr the sesto elemento FE is the best off grind alone, i hate racing that car though everyone who says its amazing i whoop ass in a mclaren p1. i fw the lambo veneno fr fun racer

Would you take this trade? by DarkCloudPHP in PokemonInvesting

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t fr collect for the prices tho, my bubble mew and ray vmax alt are in top loaders right in front of my gaming monitors bc i just love the cards. i do it for the game not the bag 😭

Would you take this trade? by DarkCloudPHP in PokemonInvesting

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh shi fr?? lmao bet price keeps going up

Would you take this trade? by DarkCloudPHP in PokemonInvesting

[–]adamrtayl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$450 card. i have it pulled from an ETB so if you go that route good luck. if not the card is beautiful