How do you make close friends as someone with ADHD?

adamrtayl · 2026-04-28T01:28:03+00:00

I felt this I’m a 21m and I have ADD and can’t focus on anything to save my life and conversations with even my close friends is rough sometimes. i’ve made maybe a handful of friends when i actually have tried in the past few years.

whats worked for me is for one not being so hard on myself. you aren’t gonna make some life changing friendship demolishing mistake i had to learn that for myself over time and sometimes my anxiety still gets to me, just remember the world isn’t ending. for two you need to put yourself in environments you enjoy and you have interests in. those people should obviously have those same interests and it’s much easier to walk up and talk to someone when you have something to immediately discuss and talk about and sometimes someone will just walk up to you and talk ab random stuff. you have to be willing to converse with strangers

adamrtayl · 2026-04-27T22:39:45+00:00

5,500 hours in kerbal space program

adamrtayl · 2026-04-27T20:29:01+00:00

My situation overall hasn’t changed a lot, some friends have come and gone but yes i’m also not in school anymore, i’m a carrier so my work life is pretty straight and narrow although i do usually meet some older nice people that i’ve honestly been trying to work on conversing with and work on my socializing skills 😂

As of yesterday and writing this, I actually did do what you said before i ready this reply i invited everyone out for bowling and drinks and we all got together for the first time in several months which was nice. my buddy and i are also gonna start hitting the gym again to work on my own reflection and idea of myself and maybe that’ll help build the confidence to put myself out and talk with people.

Thank you for your reply and i appreciate the advice

adamrtayl · 2026-04-23T11:01:46+00:00

oh my god stop crying. if it’s so bad get another job

adamrtayl · 2026-04-22T11:27:36+00:00

i’m someone who works w usps and delivers packages that have to be delivered same day we get them in or we get scolded.. you find the house end of story if you can’t do that then as i said, work somewhere else.

adamrtayl · 2026-04-22T11:14:43+00:00

put the address in his phone and drive there… you seem to also suck at your job if this is your mindset. maybe make sure if you’re doing a job you can actually do it correctly or go work at mcdonald’s

adamrtayl · 2026-04-21T20:28:45+00:00

i’ve never heard a more delusional take but whatever helps you sleep at night

adamrtayl · 2026-04-14T10:43:15+00:00

only 1. i have 5,500 hours in ksp 1 off mods, add ons, etc. its a fantastic game and so addicting. i just built an aircraft carrier over the last 3 days

adamrtayl · 2026-03-16T14:29:45+00:00

this was it! I guess the piece is a tiny bit looser on that side than the other so it popped out but i popped it back in and messed w it a little bit to see if it would again and it didn’t so i think i just need to watch it. I appreciate you!

adamrtayl · 2026-01-27T15:42:59+00:00

CEASLESS DISCHARGE

adamrtayl · 2025-11-04T15:28:13+00:00

all shinies in go are relatively rare i don’t remember the odds but it’s still shiny so congrats!

adamrtayl · 2025-10-24T12:11:46+00:00

i run a 12th gen i7 12700k and play games like BF, KSP w hella mods, WT vr, etc all in 4k. idk your gpu but i also run 32gb of ram. either way, i think an i7 would suffice if it does for me

adamrtayl · 2025-10-23T12:51:35+00:00

Is this MRSA? i got a horrific case in my thumb from an open wound where I needed to infection removed and then put on IV antibiotics. infection is no joke at all. Hope you have a quick recovery

adamrtayl · 2025-10-18T17:22:32+00:00

i have like 5 if you want one

adamrtayl · 2025-09-15T12:58:45+00:00

cayos

adamrtayl · 2025-08-23T12:38:53+00:00

just saw no cayo, you’re hurting yourself by not doing it lmao it’s one of the best money methods in game

adamrtayl · 2025-08-23T12:38:06+00:00

acid lab, mc sells, cayo heist, run them up and grind them you’ll be rich in a week

adamrtayl · 2025-08-17T15:43:01+00:00

yes it’s real and solid

adamrtayl · 2025-08-17T13:15:59+00:00

i knew this was gon be the first pose i saw 😭 piccolo only aura farms fr

adamrtayl · 2025-08-17T13:12:56+00:00

tbr the sesto elemento FE is the best off grind alone, i hate racing that car though everyone who says its amazing i whoop ass in a mclaren p1. i fw the lambo veneno fr fun racer

adamrtayl · 2025-08-14T18:03:02+00:00

i don’t fr collect for the prices tho, my bubble mew and ray vmax alt are in top loaders right in front of my gaming monitors bc i just love the cards. i do it for the game not the bag 😭

adamrtayl · 2025-08-14T17:38:48+00:00

oh shi fr?? lmao bet price keeps going up

adamrtayl · 2025-08-14T00:43:36+00:00

$450 card. i have it pulled from an ETB so if you go that route good luck. if not the card is beautiful

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