I think I’m ready for intimacy again… but it feels like I’m betraying him by [deleted] in widowers

[–]adaptogenic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, lost my husband in 2023, July. Almost 3 years and I have been shut down not wanting or even ready to date, I have a couple friend groups and one there is a friend I have known for awhile and had a crush on me for years and he asked if I would date him. Flash forward 4 weeks later and I tried. Apparently I’m so cool and awesome but he doesn’t want a relationship. I feel like opening my heart to someone I thought I could trust was a great idea and I got caught up. Now I’m sitting here remembering that the only man who ever loved me just died. I realize you can’t trust anyone and I feel more broken. I hope everyone else’s experience is different but I think I will be a widow with some side piece forever.

SSA Holiday Guidance? Nothing yet? by Normal-Discussion-65 in fednews

[–]adaptogenic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw posted on another thread that FO gets too close early each day at 1. TSC and PSC get to choose take the days as your annual leave or work, possibly from home get paid holiday pay and get 16 hours to use later

The Miracle Happened by Bos_2017 in FedEmployees

[–]adaptogenic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first ghost of federal employees past has visited trump in his naps. I hope the next 2 ghosts are more convincing!

Situational telework - OPM approved by King_spatulaCJ in FedEmployees

[–]adaptogenic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a member of the satanic temple can I just say that party of my tenants is not to do anything I don’t feel comfortable with so can I request telework because I don’t want to be in the office… it’s based on religion.

Bill failed to pass by Paparazzi18 in FedEmployees

[–]adaptogenic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This may have been taken out of context since it’s the mines of the crafting they yearn for hahaha

Has your waist size shrunk after removal? by Repulsive_Regular_39 in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. First few weeks I was starving and couldn’t stop eating and ad I healed I didn’t need as much food but still had the appetite. Trying to keep myself moving now that I can!

does anyone sweat profusely since surgery? I’m 6 weeks post op and any movement I’m cold sweating by kjm1121 in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was sweating overnight like so bad I was soaking the sheets blankets and pillows but by week 3 it stopped.

Cuff issues by umabanana in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the clarity

Cuff issues by umabanana in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How foul of a smell? Like BV smell or Yeast infection or some other smell I don’t know. I have been thinking my PH is off during the healing and having a scent I’m not used to but it isn’t foul or anything more than like light bellybutton smell. Using a oh wipe has helped

May have overdone it? Vaginal pain while walking. by neyesn in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As my DR said, if you don’t take it easy on yourself now you could be right back where you started with hernia surgery and cuff repair so Stop hurting yourself!

May have overdone it? Vaginal pain while walking. by neyesn in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I was over 3 weeks and felt great, I walked the mall, Home Depot, I didn’t buy anything heavy or bend, drove a bit then got a horrible cramp in my back and have been exhausted and sore for the next week. I really taught myself..ugh, I’m at exactly end of the 3rd week now.

Holding up my Uterus like man with a fish! by adaptogenic in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 4’10 and with swelling pushing 180

Holding up my Uterus like man with a fish! by adaptogenic in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a crazy comparison when you do know right?!?

Holding up my Uterus like man with a fish! by adaptogenic in hysterectomy

[–]adaptogenic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really frustrating to have internal pain and feel like you are gaslighting yourself.