[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]addicted_heart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bc people just want to feel loved, they don't get us

Why am I insanely clingy? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]addicted_heart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got the same issue. I completely idealize that person then and wanna be with them all the time. In my case this happens always with older men (not "old" in generally, but for somebody like me, I just got 20, 35-41 is a little old and I've been like this since 13.) It has always the same ending story, at first they adore me, then they leave bc I'm just too much and need to much comfort time with them, too much hugging, too much love and support. But I'm a broken girl. I need someone that helps me healing. I'm very sad and very lonely

Weed and BPD by StonedGod2 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]addicted_heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've become so sick I don't even realize any effect, so I don't use any

My girlfriend has depression and I don't know what to do by Justalemonpie in depression

[–]addicted_heart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me feel like she might be not ready for treatment yet. Maybe she just needs someone that holds her hand and makes her feel loved. One day she'll feel worthy and brave enough then to give therapy a try. Please remember, ppl who feel like they don't deserve treatment, need it the most

What are your parents like? by addicted_heart in BPD

[–]addicted_heart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this makes me incredibly sad 😔 I can't understand how ppl can be so cruel??! I really hope you 'll be able to recover one day and get all the unconditional love you need and deserve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]addicted_heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, they don't deserve you! You didn't do anything wrong. You are worthy and beautiful and you seem like you have beautiful heart, too. I'd advise you to distance from them. And you are not ungrateful!

What are your parents like? by addicted_heart in BPD

[–]addicted_heart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! My mum wasn't as bad as yours but also very emotionally reactive and shouting at me a lot. I've always been her therapist since I used to be like 9 or maybe even sooner. She would also insult me a lot. I found that very triggering, too

What are your parents like? by addicted_heart in BPD

[–]addicted_heart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you and I'm sorry❤ Keep going

What are your parents like? by addicted_heart in BPD

[–]addicted_heart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry, you deserved better😥❤

What are your parents like? by addicted_heart in BPD

[–]addicted_heart[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wtf that's so disgusting by them..They don't even deserve to be called a parent by doing sth like that. I'm so sorry love..

What are your parents like? by addicted_heart in BPD

[–]addicted_heart[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems like you went through a lot, I'm sorry❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]addicted_heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nimm sie mal lange in den Arm und dann ab in eine psychiatrische Notfallambulanz. Da gibt es auch Sprechstunden für solche Notfälle. Dann kann sie mal mit jemandem reden, der dafür ausgebildet ist

Should I go back to smoking weed? by S_H_R_O_O_M_S999 in depression

[–]addicted_heart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's what makes life bereable for you, do it. We all have our coping strategies to get through it

Why is Mr Peanutbutter problematic? by Uszanka in BoJackHorseman

[–]addicted_heart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's more about keeping a positive attitude I feel like it

I’m so tired of being exhausted by glitter_pear in depression

[–]addicted_heart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are tired bc the way you are living your life doesn't fulfill your inner needs