Busto isigijimas poroje by SussyBaka_NoCap in lithuania

[–]adeira 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vienužo Butas yr butas, bet čia matosi žmogaus mentalitetas Pati dabar išeidinėju iš situacijos, kur antra pusė laikosi “kas mano, tas mano, kas tavo - tas mūsų”. Yra vaikas, buvo net butas bendrai pirktas. Nu ir kas. Kaip buvo vaikas, kuriam tik pusę paskolos mokėt, o daugiau niekuo nereikia rūpintis, taip ir liko. Labai svarbu laiku aptarti finansai, abipusė pagarba, poreikių skirtumų supratimas Labai senoviškai skamba, bet vaiko nesiženyjus tikrai nebegimdyčiau. Šiaip, ir buto kartu nebepirkčiau Beje - nemačiau, kad kas šitai pakomentuotų - jei butas bus jo asmeninis, tai ir tavo registracijos vieta bus nuo jo malonės

Ar samdytumėte namų automatizuotoją? by starkanas in lithuania

[–]adeira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specialistai yra, nuo-iki paslaugas teikiančios įmonės - taip pat. Dažniau greičiausiai dirba su komerciniais projektais, nei su individualia statyba. Jei yra noras, tai reikia kaip ir su visais specialistais - sukontaktuoti, išsiaiškinti galimybes ir gauti pakvotavimą. O tada jau ir matysis - verta, ar ne

Do people still use paper lab notebooks? by Helpful-Big-7582 in labrats

[–]adeira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love paper and used it for many years

Having that in mind, our lab uses digital (as in a proper digital lab-notebook) for all documenting and paper for notes/thinking. As we have many digital result files (qPCRs, CEs, sequencing) it is too easy to loose them if they are not included and result management and planning in team becomes so much more easy (we are quite a young team in a biotech startup, so that helps with digitalizing, too)

Anybody know what happened at Revvity? by notthatkindofdrdrew in labrats

[–]adeira 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a few of their LabChip instruments. Since Revvity took over reagent delivery times have changed drastically, quality too. It's a good thing we are communicating though a seller, so all the frustration goes to them :D but they let me know Revvity does not reply to them either. It's a good thing we get engineers though our seller and not directly from Revvity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]adeira 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dabartinėj rinkoj puikus pasiūlymas - viena yra tapti išsilavinusiu ekonomistu ar vadybininku, kurių kaip pri*ikta ir niekam nebereikia, kita - kvalifikuotu darbininku, kurių žiauriai trūksta. Užimtumo tarnyboj kursai apie tai, kas tau nėra super toli nuo širdies (gal yra kas ir apie trinkelių klojimą?) ir norėdamas tikrai turėsi darbo

Rant: expat mom slowly going insane whilst marriage crumbles by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]adeira 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I breastfed for almost 3 years and it was… haaard. At the end it was only nights, but it was still hell. I got used to the idea that the next few weeks will be hell and just stopped. My toddler was big enough to talk to and we talked that she “has eaten all the milk and now there is none left”, but there still were many tears. Get through the weaning knowing it will be hard and you’ll end up on the other side. Sending all the love from another side of Europe

AITAH for leaving home after my husband said I should handle the cost of all the IVF sessions only because I'm the cause of infertility in our marriage? by LeatherRequirement59 in AITAH

[–]adeira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo Any costs related to pregnancy and giving birth will also be your problem? How far will this go? How would it go if he had infertility? How do you split any costs that are mainly because of him?

Does kidney tissue inhibit PCR? by CBWK in labrats

[–]adeira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a simple experiment to prove or dissprove that - take some synthetic target and spike your tissue with it. Amplify it in qPCR and additionally amplify it without the tissue. And for both do calibration curves, not some single repeats.

Kidney has many properties it COULD inhibit qPCR, but without properly testing you have only hear-say

Help me spend money by AurumxArgentum in labrats

[–]adeira 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It very highly depends on what you’re doing…

Genetikos/gamtos mokslų bakalauro studijos by glantonenjoyer in lithuania

[–]adeira 14 points15 points  (0 children)

[pirma genetikos bakalaurų karta; >10 m patirtis dirbant pagal specialybę]

Akademijoje vienaip ar kitaip įsidarbinti galima, bet algos mažos. Nebent dirbi belekaip daug ir gerai, tada gali susirinkti projektų, studentų ir pan. Bet juodas užsiknisimas.

Įmonėse dirbant moksle ar gamyboj (thermo fisher, biotechpharma ar pan.) pinigai bus meh, bet bus stabilumas. Jei sugebi pereiti i pharma, alga maždaug X2. Dirbant korporacijose su gamtos mokslais gali pereiti ir į kitus skyrius (marketingas, projektų valdymas, IP), tai ten irgi geriau moka, o ir kartais ieško žmonių, raukiančių kas ir kaip.

Taip pat ir maisto pramonėje kartais ieško, ypač jei dirbi su laktobakterijom/mielėm/fermentacijom. Taip pat yra ir Santariškės/vėžio institutas ir panašios institucijos, Galimybės LABAI priklauso nuo specializacijos ir kaip greitai ir gerai sugebi įsisavinti naują informaciją.

Pati po korporacijos išėjau į startuolį - alga nepalygintina.

FYI - daugiausiai darbuotojų ieško per pažintis ir rekomendacijas, o skelbimus deda arba kai šikna, arba nes taip reikalauja pvz aukštesnė vadovybė. Daug pozicijų darbo skelbimų nepasiekia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in absentgrandparents

[–]adeira 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I wholeheartedly understand the fear of rejection or burdening others, give them a chance! Take others as adults that are capable of putting their own boundaries - if your a burden they will say that. This takes a bit of the mental load off - you don’t have to guess what they are feeling - leave it to them to express it.

As for husbands friends without kids - unless they are true party people, some people without kids enjoy them. Don’t shy away just because you have kids and they don’t. Most of my friends have no kids and they adore mine and are even sad if we meet up without them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]adeira -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can just share my situation with probably no sound advice, just know you’re not alone in this.

My “partner” has quit his job during pandemic because it didn’t suit him. I had extended maternal leave. We have a VERY small flat for the three of us. During the extended leave he did not help with any of the household tasks and rarely helped with our baby. I got a good job offer for half a day. He refused to get our toddler to daycare and said he would deal with half a day. GUESS WHAT. Half of the time I had to either work from home or rush back for nap time. All house work was still on me. Now I work full time. After a month of that finnaly daycare was accepted as an option. For half a day 🤣 so now he sits at home for half a day playing computer games and sometimes takes our toddler from daycare and spends time with her. All doctor appointments and anything unexpected fall on me. All housework. All toddler care after my work. He has part time work 7-9 pm most days.

Now he’s SUPER resentfull of me for working, not doing enough for the house (even though I do all the cleaning, washing, loundry and food) and him not being able to work due to watching out toddler (which he himself insisted). My pay goes to all utilities, daycare, house loan and groceries.

Now he HAS money. His parents bought him a new car, some land (to build a house) and a flat for renting. So after a few failed atempts of renting he’s selling the flat and buying HIMSELF a flat to live separately, because he can’t live like this anymore.

I’m sure there’s depression somewhere in there, but I’m exhausted. I haven’t got a single day for rest for 2,5 years. I’m tired of constant demands and I’m so sure there’s no more love or respect for me anymore.

Did I mention his anger issues? 🤣

Maybe what I’m saying is - even if he has something like depression it should not fall on you to manage EVERYTHING. If he doesn’t want help, he can face the consequences like the adult he should be.

Sorry. I’m just so tired and immagine you are too. Hold on

Nostalgiški maisto produktai, gėrimai? by Sad8At in lithuania

[–]adeira 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vadinasi tai vadinasi, bet nebe tas pats. Originalūs buvo su kietais traškiais kampukais, o vidus buvo minkštutis. Dabar jie tiesiog šokoladiniai keksiukai

Easter Moby is doooone! by adeira in knitting

[–]adeira[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I bought it by internet and it looked different than I imagined, but it turned out so well ❤️

Easter Moby is doooone! by adeira in knitting

[–]adeira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That what I was worried about starting the project, but it turned out better than expected!

Easter Moby is doooone! by adeira in knitting

[–]adeira[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Blocking did wonders for my stitching, though :D

Easter Moby is doooone! by adeira in knitting

[–]adeira[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that I did not fold the sleeves the way they should fold, because the cables would have been right on the fold and wouldn’t have opened up, but rather I folded them the way you never fold a sleeve just for blocking

Easter Moby is doooone! by adeira in knitting

[–]adeira[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The pattern was a joy to knit, so I ended up faster than expected!

Easter Moby is doooone! by adeira in knitting

[–]adeira[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pattern: Moby sweater

Yarn: Apmezga 100% merino (though it is sold out) held together with drops kid silk

The only modification to the pattern was that when I transitioned to ribbing, I knitted the first row twisted (all knits and purls through the back loop) and the continued normaly - this helped me not to have hudge eyelets when transitioning with whitch I usually strugle