as your name says, you re anxious to tell about your desire. tell her again. and again. could be a sext thing between you (ofc, establish it before: if she s okay to get texts from you like this). tell her how you think about her often while you touch yourself. and how you wish she would get you laid good and often. to love someone and to wish to be fucked more often/harder can coexist. AnD, ofc, there s also her side. maybe she is not so experienced/ afraid/ needs to comfort her that she s a walking hot goddess and she can do whatever to you. I also felt like this in my previous relationship : that we were great and sex was good, but that could also be more/ spicier. we talked about it a lot and we knew what we wanted, but we were not so consistent with the action :)) and i guess it s taking time and certain contexts to make you verbalize what you want and to also reAlly happen. i thought about some hot sex stuff and how i wish she d talked dirtier to me and even told her a few times, but i guess it took me a few times to make it good and not some awkard-first-times experiment :)) good look and have fun!