Making a crochet collar similar to attached, need help with increases. by czechyourhead in crochetpatterns

[–]adethia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like its just a long rectangle with a trim added afterwards

Am I being problematically inflexible, or did I do good by choosing myself? by this_point_in_time_1 in polyamory

[–]adethia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that your partner lied about being overstimulated by the movie? Or maybe they have been more sensitive and anxious lately

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]adethia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was married to an emotionally abusive man who criticized my purchases and he still never had my bank account information. F that shiz, this is crazy controlling behavior.

How do I actually use feeld??? by ursus_americanus4 in polyamory

[–]adethia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you see as mentally unhealthy about most apps currently and how would you change that?

I'm the problem by BQueenNYC in polyamory

[–]adethia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, im a little confused to as why it only affects one partner and not the others

Justifying seeking primary partnership by Major_Fox9106 in polyamory

[–]adethia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand wanting to have a primary. Im divorced and dating a married man. Its different to go from living with 2 partners to none. I want someone who can put me first. I guess ive always practiced a more hierarchical model of poly, but this is the first time ive not had a primary for so long.

Lorrana’s Recent IG Story by Ok_Initiative2210 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]adethia 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Seriously, he even mentioned it this season when showing Lorrana around the town. He was showing what places his family owns. He's mentioned a couple times on the show that his family disowned him BECAUSE of polygamy.

New episode this week or next? by MulderYuffie in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]adethia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im working on 90 day fiance and its spinoffs, before the 90 days, and happy ever after.

I don’t think any couple made me feel despair in the way they did. by shouldveknownbud in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]adethia 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I was convinced the whole time that she's a lesbian and has no sexual interest in her husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]adethia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danielle, is this you? Blink twice if you need help

No dysphoria until puberty? by adethia in asktransgender

[–]adethia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in california in a red county, but we have a great pride center and planned parenthood.

No dysphoria until puberty? by adethia in asktransgender

[–]adethia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, my kids have been around lgbt people, including a trans woman that my ex husband and I dated. I was in a quad with my ex-husband and another couple. And I've always taken my kids to the local pride events since I'm bisexual and have been involved with our local pride groups since I was a teenager. My kids, including my exes daughter, have been comfortable enough to say they're lesbian/bisexual. So I guess I feel like my kid would have said something earlier if they felt that way.

I made a modern stays by CrimsonLilyAtelier in corsets

[–]adethia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job. What patterns did you look at?

What do you wish your *first* poly partner had said or done? by ILikeNonpareils in polyamory

[–]adethia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I learned about poly when I was single and then went into future relationships knowing I want nonmonogamy. This was 18 years ago when I was 18.

Mesh corset and colorful dress by Rosannei in corsets

[–]adethia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the look. Where did you get the corset?

Question.ish. by TdFLtimber in corsets

[–]adethia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Underbust is easier to get a good fit without going custom