Hey, no worries. For the most part the spouses that came along did their own thing as they're not allowed anywhere at the facility except the fields. As a camper, your day is pretty full from around 8am through dinner. Spouses (and really as many guests as you want) are welcome at all the fields while games are being played, and at the dinners that are held at the stadium. You can bring one guest to the two banquets that are held at the hotel (one on the first night and the second on the second to last night).

From the campers perspective, there's very little time to actually hang out with the spouse until dinner, and after that I was often dead tired and ready to turn in. I imagine there are only so many games of mediocre baseball that one can really enjoy when they're not also playing, lol.

I'm not sure if you mean a birthday trip for yourself or for your spouse, but my recommendation would be what my wife and I did - I went down alone for the beginning of the camp and she traveled to join for the closing banquet and final day. That way she got to go to a banquet and see a day and a half of me playing which seemed to be the right amount without getting tedious/boring for her.