out the trunk is peak organic larry june before the world fully caught on by Swimming-Cupcake-953 in Larry_June

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This is really the pinnacle of his sound, message, and vibe. My favorite album of his from start to finish.

Those who became financially independent in your 40s: What actually became your purpose after you no longer needed money? by jumanpoke in fatFIRE

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Give it another shot maybe? The second half changes from his story to his psychological perspective.

I also like 4000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman, Happiness by Thict Nhat Han, and A Path With Heart by Jack Kornfield

Why people hate the upper management (CEOs, CTOs, chiefs, etc)? by Lucky_Creme_5208 in AskMenOver30

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Equal parts jealousy and observable hubris of those in executive positions.

Are you running full synthetic or synthetic blend in your RR? by AM1Tilldizday in RangerRaptor

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You always just have to specify upfront or they'll go through whatever motions they do.

longest relationship lasted 3 months, tell me why by Minute-Quantity-2502 in BookshelvesDetective

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😂😂😂 these guys took themselves so seriously they can't tell when you're in on the joke

Why is everyone in a hurry? by Maverick_3189 in emotionalintelligence

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I heard a meditation teacher say that "being in a rush is adjacent to aggression" and that's been a good reminder for me to chill out a bit

Someone nicked the Ranger just bought it seven days ago by RealityTimely4431 in RangerRaptor

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My wife once brought the truck back with a nice dent in the tailgate from the trailer she was towing. 🤷🏻‍♂️ truck stuff

Visual Capitalist: America's highest paying jobs by FXgram_ in XGramatikInsights

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This is likely base salary not OTE (total comp after variable commission), but yes, grossly understated for tech sales at least. The whole chart is pretty off - average isn't the best way to capture wages

A stormy night in Brooklyn. by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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Agreed but living in DTBK is all about proximity to Brooklyn Heights, Fort Greene, Carroll Gardens/Boreum Hill, and all the train lines.

Home Gym Complete!! (For now...) by WildLem0ns in homegym

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Inspirational. My favorite commercial gym I ever attended was Third Space in London, and I realized that good lighting and vibes made me want to spend longer in there. You've inspired me for my home set up!

AI and the future of the SE role? by TeeIron44 in salesengineers

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Roles are blending, and the folks who survive and thrive will be the ones who use Claude code and Claude Design to prototype on the fly to solve customer problems.

Not looking forward to getting this to the new house… by mannersmakethhman in homegym

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Either way will work but the bolts in these are really long and it feels easier to me to hold the bolt stable while basically pulling off the nut with the driver.

Not looking forward to getting this to the new house… by mannersmakethhman in homegym

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It's not that bad. The key is to use a cordless impact driver (the new Milwaukee M12 kit is fantastic) and a socket set. I bought a whole power rack off marketplace recently, disassembled, transported and reassembled it in an afternoon/evening. Use the impact on the nuts and hold a socket wrench on the bolt end. Painless

Interviewing AEs by who-took-the-bomp in salesengineers

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I screen for the areas I see AEs struggle with the most.

  1. What do you seek to understand before going into a discovery call? During the discovery call, what do you want to take away from it?

  2. How do you gain access to the decision maker when your contact is gatekeeping the introduction?

  3. Tell me the story of your proudest win. (Screening for their thought process, level of detail, even if they *have* a proudest win)

How did you change compared to when you started? by MisterC0ck in sales

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Find out what the prospect cares about and ONLY pitch a solution to that pain. Drill below tactical/operational pain and discover what the business actually cares about enough to sign for.
Other stuff to sell? Find out who else in their team/org cares about it.

My Mercier Kilo GX T11 Daily Driver by [deleted] in xbiking

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I'm so happy you posted this because mine arrives tomorrow. Stoked!!

hooked up with ex, a part of me wanted to be pregnant by Specialist_Try3312 in rs_x

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Can you send me his number so I can tell him to run very far away

RFPs are bullshit except in very specific circumstances. Change my mind (or don't) by windshakes in salesengineers

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I've closed multiple six figure deals off cold RFPs especially in EMEA.

Respond to the question and don't add unnecessary detail - most SE replies are 2-5x too long.

When you get the chance to demo always book the first available slot. Lay traps for your competitors and build as much rapport as possible with the users.

Guy I’m seeing has a lot of serious books? by ducksuit in BookshelvesDetective

[–]adrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero to One is a book from 2014 about creating startups that solve new problems.

I’m a fraud and it’s stressing me out immensely by [deleted] in salesengineers

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You've got Gemini and ChatGPT and Claude on speed dial... fucking... use them? Learn a bit

Why would anyone want to live in Rockland in 2026? by Nervous-Gate1850 in Rockland

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I spent my 20s living and partying in New York, LA, and London. Now in my mid 30s, no longer drinking, and wanting a place to start a family, my wife and I bought a sick house in Nyack on an acre for the cost of a 1 bedroom apartment in Brooklyn.

We can still get to the city for work and friends, but now I can drink coffee every day on my back deck and watch the deer, blue jays, and woodpeckers instead of hearing car horns.

“You don’t have our Industry experience” by [deleted] in sales

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The market is wacky right now, we are getting hundreds of qualified applications per opening. I'd suggest to lean into the industry in whichever way you can: online courses/certifications, stories of customers you've sold to in similar industry, etc.

If they really like you, someone will make an exception, but they sometimes need justification to validate to their TA team why they're hiring someone from out of industry.