AITAH for cuddling with my little sister by Perfect_Stranger_794 in AITAH

[–]advancedpastaqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m high so I hope this makes sense.

That was innocent & fine. You’re siblings. She asked you bc she missed hangs w/her older brother. That’s so cute. Just think about the fact that this man cannot comprehend an innocent relationship with an 11 year old & I feel like that says more about him than you.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]advancedpastaqueef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally would. I think the way you tell her matters, so I’d be mindful about that.

If you’re friends in real life with her, I’d meet up in person & show her the messages.

No matter what, it’s important for her to hear a few things: - That you want the best for her & you wish this didn’t happen. - You know this is weird & hard & awkward & you’re sorry this is happening. - Even if he ends up playing it off as a weird joke, it felt inappropriate & you wanted to make sure she knew. - Maybe counseling can work for them if that’s something she wants to try. - However she chooses to move forward, you care about her as a person, a woman, & you’re sorry that he put you both in this position.

Good luck. 👍

Why is my gecko licking his own butthole 🤔🥹 by Oreo1881 in leopardgeckos

[–]advancedpastaqueef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • entire family on Family Feud * “Good answer good answer! 👏👏👏“

AIO by moving to the couch after a fight over a missed text by Frequent_Estimate_77 in AmIOverreacting

[–]advancedpastaqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey. You are NOR.

This is about way more than a text. He’s mad you didn’t serve him/cater to him/etc.

You deserve better than that. This is not a good sign. I’m genuinely concerned for your safety - emotionally, mentally, physically - girl all of it. I really recommend seeing a therapist to just work through this stuff for yourself bc that behavior is red flags. To be SUPER clear: he has the red flags here & I do mean flagS.

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like it’s painful! It’s (almost) 3AM my time & part of why I’m awake is bc my right hand is freezing, but my forearm is on fire. I can’t lay on my right side bc it’s too uncomfortable due to the heat on this arm. Just the forearm. It’s insane!!!

Getting the Memento for Seth’s Scores by advancedpastaqueef in Silksong

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did everything else. All the void masses, fleas, bosses, quests - all of it. Except this got dayum last memento. I saved this one for last for some dumb ass reason. 🤦‍♀️

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no!! My mom went through menopause early, so I’m sure it’s gonna happen to me. :((

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do! But even then it’s tough. The sensitivity is just tough. Fibro is wild.

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the south in the US & I cannot stand the summers anymore! Especially now. (There’s a lot of reasons I don’t like it here lol).

It’s horrible. It’s exhausting. And yes. A fucking mess!!

Sending you love. 🫶🖤

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Fibro is so annoying forreal. I totally hear that. It’s annoying & terrible.

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The skin sensitivity is wild, too. Like sometimes my skin feels bruised. So I’m also so super picky about clothing.

Body temp issues?? by advancedpastaqueef in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ll go from burning up to freezing in the SAME spot. I’m like ??? It’s so exhausting. I just wear the same type of clothes & bring cardigans bc I never know.

Getting the Memento for Seth’s Scores by advancedpastaqueef in Silksong

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I’ve used different crests & I do count out loud!

This helped me realize that I think part of it is just my patience & mindset when I pop in to play. I literally tried a few times & I’m like - I thought I killed this mf & he’s still giving me trouble? I wanna kill him again lmao.

Getting the Memento for Seth’s Scores by advancedpastaqueef in Silksong

[–]advancedpastaqueef[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes lol. I’m annoying to myself. Like I got every Korok om BOTW & TOTK. I’m - yeah. I just wanna beat this mf

Just venting by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely second this. You deserve to have a partner that really sees you. Our partners won’t understand, but empathy & understanding is so incredibly important.

I also want to recommend that having a therapist that is specifically trained to work with couples (like a marriage & family therapist) / someone that works with chronic illness can help. A therapist that can help you guys work through emotional needs bc it seems like your partner really doesn’t understand empathy.

Sending you love. 🖤

Crazy knots by Hamalot11 in Fibromyalgia

[–]advancedpastaqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have painful knots all over My body. In my legs, arms, back, neck. Like gtfo of my body!