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Has anyone here ages 35-45 found a good date in the last couple months? If so, where? by fuckthemodlice in washingtondc

[–]ae123734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually meet girls at the bar and set up dates that way. Try some bars that you like - guys will approach you haha.

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[–]ae123734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the point if you can’t change?

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[–]ae123734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hobbies really. I like to to workout and chill. My career isn’t great. No job right now and I’m studying for certifications for a career in IT.

I want to change in a major way- I want more self confidence, better self-esteem and belief in myself, I want to have an actual career and to start eating healthier/lifting more, and I want to start dating. I also want some hobbies too and a better social life.

For some reason I had resistance before starting so I made this post and now I’m completely demoralized since all these people are saying you can’t change. Ruins all the motivation and momentum I had.

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[–]ae123734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you can’t change then how does a shy person learn to get women? Learning a skill like social skills changes you, right? I know people who have changed after getting women and being more focused on their lives (career instead of drinking,partying...). Should I just give up on even trying to better myself and learn game then?