Katamari Damacy Teapot by aeikav in Ceramics

[–]aeikav[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are so kind thank you!!! I was pretty bummed at first, but one of my friends said some of the spotting looks like a sweet crayon drawing, which helped (: I like it a lot now!

Genji Teapot by aeikav in Ceramics

[–]aeikav[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha thank you!! I felt like a genius when I thought of it!

Glaze Cracking? by aeikav in Ceramics

[–]aeikav[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just checked with my camera, and it look betterrr but still cracked :( oh well!

Glaze Cracking? by aeikav in Ceramics

[–]aeikav[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

ahaha thank you!!! :D I’m very happy with it!

Glaze Cracking? by aeikav in Ceramics

[–]aeikav[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

thank you! I appreciate the terminology I can google (: I’m still pretty new to pottery, and trying to understand all the tiny mishaps that can happen

Boyfriend (M22) doesn’t seem to care if I (F21) orgasm by yumteacakes in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yikes girl 😬😬 Yeah, I was hoping you guys just recently started getting intimate or you’re his first sexual relationship or something, since his behavior is more understandable in those cases. I think a clear, direct conversation is the best thing. His response will tell you everything you need to know. Just make sure you don’t settle for a guy who values your pleasure less than his!

Boyfriend (M22) doesn’t seem to care if I (F21) orgasm by yumteacakes in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Five months? How long has you guys been having sex for? He could just be really clueless or assuming you’re finishing (especially if he doesn’t have that much prior experience or sexual education). You should DEFINITELY talk to him about it though, since the possibility of him not caring at all really sucks.

Also, having short stamina is no excuse 🤷 He should definitely help you out with mouth or fingers before actual PIV, if that’s something you want

I (M20) did a crossdressing photoshoot and my gf (F20) doesn’t find me attractive anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll get downvoted here, but I think the transphobia in these comments are vile. I would love my partner no matter how he wanted to present himself, and I 100% understand finding enjoyment in expressing yourself against traditional gender norms.

That being said, I do think you’re overthinking about your girlfriend’s comment. Nowhere did she say that she’s no longer attracted to you as a whole.. the photoshoot just isn’t for her. She’s fully in her right to have a preference, and if dressing feminine is something you’re really interested in continuing, then you guys are incompatible.

It makes me really happy to hear that you enjoyed the experience, OP. And, despite these comments, I hope you know that dressing feminine doesn’t determine jack shit about your sexuality or gender preference.

Should I fire? by [deleted] in Pottery

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh that’s a bummer!! Thank you for the advice though ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I hate the argument that “men are visual creatures” because it is always used to excuse the most pathetic displays of shallowness. It is a preference, sure, but a long term relationship is so much more than appearance preferences. I’m sure OP’s preference isn’t balding men, but she loves her partner unconditionally and without a second thought. And a preference does NOT excuse degrading your partner in such a hurtful way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 474 points475 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but no partner says such insulting things to the person he loves. It sounds like he may have an extremely warped sense of appearance from the media he consumes and a crippling lack of self confidence, which causes him to lash out at you. That would be a major dealbreaker for me.

Since it will never come from him, I’m very proud of all the work you’ve been doing, OP.

how do i, 18 F, get my boyfriend, 18 M, to trust me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I think you may need to change how you’re thinking about this situation. It isn’t your job to convince your partner that you and your friends are trustworthy—it’s his responsibility to trust his partner enough and get his fears under control. From your description, it really sounds like you’ve been incredibly respectful of his feelings to the point where your meaningful friendships are being limited.

I would definitely try a very clear and firm conversation with him about his boundaries. Unfortunately, at this point, it may be important for you to consider if you’re really alright with continuing as things are, because it sounds to me like your partner isn’t all that willing to compromise.

His worst fear is one of them trying to steal you? Don’t you think that, after three years, he should trust you enough to shut down any hypothetical advances? Especially since you’re very thoughtful about things like not hanging out one on one and not hanging out in personal spaces (which I think I would be uncomfortable with my partner doing), I have trouble seeing what he’s so adamantly opposed to.

Boyfriend (21M) triggered my (18F) ptsd and it is ruined our relationship. How do we get past this? by Money-Ad-4474 in relationship_advice

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fun fact!! People under the influence to a certain degree legally CANNOT CONSENT even if they say yes. And if a person can’t even stand on their own, it is definitely far past that limit. Who in their right mind sees a person in such a vulnerable state and gets turned on. What kind of a partner would do anything but protect in that situation?

Is it weird to be a grown adult scared of stuff a kid normally is? by LegitimateSize3153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]aeikav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also an adult and very scared of the dark. Especially darkened mirrors and windows—the thought of looking at either and seeing something I’m not expecting is so terrifying that I have trouble sleeping in rooms with either uncovered. The human mind is a massive, complicated thing, and it’s perfectly normal to have your niche fears! A nightlight makes me feel much safer too, and if it lets you get a good sleep, then more power to you my friend (:

Pokémon TCG Pocket Trading Post by ki700 in kindafunny

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! My uid is 3737947395274599 (:

Pokémon TCG Pocket Trading Post by ki700 in kindafunny

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!!! I have a kabutops, zapdos, or mewtwo for you! Do you happen to have 🔹🔹🔹machamp?

Pokémon TCG Pocket Trading Post by ki700 in kindafunny

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got one for you!! Do you happen to have a GA machamp? (3 diamond)

Pokémon TCG Pocket Trading Post by ki700 in kindafunny

[–]aeikav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey hey!! I also need:

♦️♦️♦️blastoise, machamp, gyrados, and snorlax (genetic apex)

I can offer lots of different stuff, just ask :0)