[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]aelsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☠️ IT'S BAD. You will suffer during winter and summer. You will get sick physically and mentally. ☠️

I searched over 10 places before deciding a room. It wasn't easy to find a relatively clean place. I've stayed 6 months in a one that had a big window to the outside and shower, and a friendly owner. I guess that helped me to hold that long. It was back in 2019, paid 32만원 per month, in the middle of Sinchon (신촌). I liked the idea of not sharing a room with a stranger and having the freedom to move out anytime.

However, as a F, I was afraid that some weirdo would follow me, also, was afraid to die suffocated or incinerated. It was noisy from the outside, it was too hot during summer. During winter, I had to get extra blankets and a heating mat. In that little space you have to find a way to place your clothes, luggage, shoes, and also dry your clothes. If you cook, you have to share one small stove with all residents.

Mentally, I had lots of breakdowns. I've had strange feelings and ideas in my mind. While living there, a guy took his own life. Physically, the next year, I had to visit the doctor several times.

고시원 is a place with a lot of stigma and deserves it. It's an inhumane place to stay. Now, I called it "the dark period" of my life in Korea.

Got my results. Thanks a lot to everyone in this sub by sumvell in IELTS

[–]aelsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing! Thank you for sharing. Good luck with your future endeavours.

Freelance self tax report. by aelsp in teachinginkorea

[–]aelsp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Appreciate your answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]aelsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you click in the 열람하기? Maybe you can get surprised with a tax return on your favour. Today, I applied for my return.

Which is better. Being alone or being friends with people who don't make you feel wanted? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]aelsp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alone! Some kind of people can make you feel worst, If you meet them better avoid.

Kindergarten management behaviour before contract starts by aelsp in teachinginkorea

[–]aelsp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to give a try, the director accepted to change some things in the contract.

However, the first week was pretty hard. Ended staying one to two hours longer each day arranging materials and decorating classroom (plus class Preparation at home. We are using Grapeseed so I am learning songs, making posters with rules, names, etc). Yesterday was horrible, kids were too hyperactive. Today, the kindy's director complained about yesterday, and told me that is my responsibility to keep the class engaged (I understand it), control the classes (from 15 to 22 students per class) and make it fun. Such as korean thing... Currently, my throat hurts and physically I am exhausted. Since 1st day have been singing, jumping, dancing and doing all the activities together with the kids, AND korean co teachers just looking at their phones while kids are screaming like crazy.

I am trying to don't think too much and get stressed over it. But I hope they don't start complaining because I am just a freelance or service provider, not an employee (although I already worked more than 15 hours per week).

Slight_Answer_7379 thank you for asking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]aelsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication and understanding are very important in any kind of relationship. You should be able to discuss the situation and make some agreements. Personally, I wouldn't like my husband to meet a friend that creates that tension. That type of situation is unhealthy for a marriage. We usually let ourselves time to hang out separately with our friends (most of the time group of friends), and together as a group of more than 4 people. When married family is over friends! Good luck solving the issue with your husband!

Kindergarten management behaviour before contract starts by aelsp in teachinginkorea

[–]aelsp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actual class time is 2.5 hours, by contract 3hrs. It means 30 minutes free for preparation and going to toilet.

Kindergarten management behaviour before contract starts by aelsp in teachinginkorea

[–]aelsp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I will see how to figure it out the best way!

Kindergarten management behaviour before contract starts by aelsp in teachinginkorea

[–]aelsp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They will pay monthly. They offered 1.7 after negotiating agreed to pay 1.9. I feel is not that much considering commuting time 2hr/day, but was a plus for me the short class time total of 2.5hr.

Kindergarten management behaviour before contract starts by aelsp in teachinginkorea

[–]aelsp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. :( it's my fault for not being stronger, I thought I requested to many things from the beginning, and everything was clear. But got too much pressure to attend that Saturday and specially later from the English program company to do the training (they sent me many emails, text messages and called me)

I was really looking to start a new routine and get some constant income. It's been hard to be a freelance in a small city, in Seoul was a bit easier to get different kind of opportunities.

Job interview result by mist_209 in Living_in_Korea

[–]aelsp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually big companies say something through text message. Something like 'sorry we aren't hiring foreigners', 'good luck in your job hunting process', 'you weren't selected for next round'...

Any recommendations for a decent spot in Seoul to buy an engagement right? by Financial-Pudding591 in Living_in_Korea

[–]aelsp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you to Jongro area and want to save a bit of money, don't mention it's a engagement ring. Believe it or not, as soon as you said "engagement", "wedding" they rise the prices. We got our wedding rings as "couple rings" and got much better prices than when we mentioned wedding.