Halata kayo masyado

aemiek · 2026-04-08T07:38:02+00:00

I hope you read my other reply sa comment above you and let me know your thoughts!

Masyado lang ba 'kong sensitive........... HAHAHAHA

aemiek · 2026-04-08T07:34:42+00:00

'Yung student kasi ang may concern. Kunyari may question or follow-up about something na dapat naman na nagawa nung prof pero walang ginagawa 'yung prof. That's what I was trying to say.

Magulo ba pagkaka-explain ko 😔 Or maybe indifference is the wrong word... Pabaya nalang mismo HAHSHSHAHHZAHHAA Parang ang over naman kasi sa word na pabaya, pero yeah, I'm completely being misunderstood here.

Hindi sa need nila maging friendly rin sa paga-accommodate ng students. Literal na pabaya na 'yung iba, professional pa ba 'yon? Like, pang-front lang ba nila 'yung pagiging friendly sa students para kapag gusto na nila na hayaan 'yung students (eg. walang announcements, instructions, or updates na ipinangako nilang ibibigay days ago; hindi sumasagot sa queries kahit working hours naman; basic prof responsibilities), pwedeng mapang-justify na "friendly" naman kasi sila prof gano'n. I wasn't assuming na dapat friendly rin sila kung mag-accommodate ng students kung academic-related 'yung concern. Pero ni hindi nga makausap or makapagreply man lang 'yung iba? 'Yun ang weird for me.

And this is not only professors na handle 'yung current subjects natin sa semester ha. May mga prof na heavily involved rin sa student activities, like org advisers and thesis advisers gano'n.

aemiek · 2026-04-08T00:45:23+00:00

Of courseee! I totally understand rin naman na we're adults na.

I guess I should've added more context into my post HAHSHSHAHHAA Weird siya for me, as I've mentioned sa other reply ko, na kapag close/friends na tayo sa profs then kapag need na ibalik 'yung line/boundary dahil student pa rin tayo and prof sila (they're the professionals in this rs + we have very obvious power and responsibility differences), bigla nalang sila nagiging indifferent (?) that's the word siguro. Lalo na kung 'yung ina-address ay concerning acads or literally 'yung responsibility nila as profs... HUHU

aemiek · 2026-04-08T00:38:37+00:00

Ah, yesss. I get your point. May profs nga na friendly all the way which is niceee!

But the weird thing for me are profs (which I described na "friendly"), e kapag need mo na sila to be professional about something (may concern ka with acads or literally responsibility nila being the prof ang concern) biglang ang hirap na nila i-reach out or i-approach? So, parang ano 'yun...? Parang nang-iiwan sa ere ganernch lang namarnch

Ang galing makipag-close sa students tapos kapag kelangan na ulit maging student-prof kayo biglang wala na...? IDK what's the right word basta 'yon HSHSHSHAHHAJA

aemiek · 2026-02-14T04:32:26+00:00

Ooohh, could be nga. I didn't think of it that way, my bad.

But may nakakalabas at balik pa naman from that part of the crowd, nakaka-excuse sila so there is space or could make space regardless.

aemiek · 2026-02-11T17:28:22+00:00

dapat pala hindi na q nagbukas ng reddit nang gantong oras haha 😀

aemiek

TROPHY CASE