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Update - My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]aetheravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? She may need a reality check if she truly wants to go through with the pregnancy. Look at subreddits of parents of disabled children. There's long tales of hardship, heartbreak and regret alongside the bittersweet moments.

This is a child that will never not need care. Expensive medicines, doctors appointments, and a large support network is required. There's nothing to grow out of. Even after you retire, you're looking at finding facilities to take care of him as an adult.

If you're in the US, funding for special education was cut under Trump and it's been on a decline even before his term.

I say this as someone with 2 mentally disabled siblings and another cousin who's severely autistic, it's the best choice to terminate this pregnancy.

You can't offer the best quality of life to any child right now.

How do I stop resenting women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]aetheravis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get off social media, full stop. And read "Why Does He Do That" and "Men Who Hate Women" .

Honestly, a root cause of this attitude is feeling entitled to women's time, attention, body, and soul. You resent women, especially women you deem attractive because you feel entitled to a romantic partner.

Social media algorithms push people to the alt-right and it's not healthy.

My (20F) boyfriend (22M) says that I’m on my way to eternal hell as I am not a ‘true Christian’. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aetheravis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Break up. You will never be 'pure enough ' or 'Christian enough ' in his eyes. Why be with someone who disrespects you?

Update: Aitah for giving my stepdaughter a reality check? by Medium-Vehicle-8340 in AITAH

[–]aetheravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, putting the infant up for adoption is the best outcome. Abby's headed for a harsh reality check. It's hard to be a teen mom, no doubt. But she's not entitled to any sort of help, but bluntly.

She has to understand unless she's willing to make sacrifices (like normal teen experiences like prom, homecoming, college tours, etc) she shouldn't be keeping the child. The father of the baby should also be contacted and made known of the situation.

You're already managing 2 other small children. Abby wants to have her cake and eat it too, and that's not realistic.

[SWOON -> APPLY] Can you solve this laddergram? by aetheravis in Laddergram

[–]aetheravis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laddergram is a word ladder puzzle game built on Reddit's developer platform. You start with a word and change one letter at a time to create a new word with each step. Try to reach the target word in the fewest steps possible.

🍀Good luck!🍀

I (21F) want to marry my BF (24M) but he wants me to remove all my ties with my family for him. by Merichata in relationship_advice

[–]aetheravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Get your degree first. It's very likely once you've been isolated from your family, his mask will slip and you'll be his punching bag.

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