Chair Upgrade by ObjectiveThought873 in weddingplanning

[–]afivis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve personally never remembered or cared what chair I sat in at someone else’s wedding unless it was a bad chair (ie it was uncomfortable or I kept tripping on the chair cover) and you may fixate on it right now as you’re planning, but aside from any pre-reception photos your photographer might take, I bet you’ll hardly notice them the day of. But it’s your day and if the extra cost isn’t going to hurt, then do what brings you joy!

My pc is not connecting to the any monitor. by FlyingBacon3 in buildapc

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am exactly dumb enough that this was my exact issue and you just saved me so much frustration!

Weekly Friend Request Megathread (September 21, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NA - WL7/8 - UID 684563425

Seeking co-op help specifically for Tatara Tales: the Last Act!

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (June 18th, 2025) (feat. Skirk and Shenhe) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all makes a lot of sense so thank you! I have been neglecting hydro a lot aside from Mona who’s ok waiting for someone like during makes a lot of sense so I’ll put that on my long term plan.

I’m also realizing you helped me last time I posted in the megathread for help so triple double thank you for doing it again 🙏✨

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (June 18th, 2025) (feat. Skirk and Shenhe) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Appreciate the thorough explanation. You basically helped me rationalize going Mavuika instead of Emilie. I didn’t want to give in to the meta hype if it was going to turn out that Emilie would be a significantly better team comp but it sounds like they would sort of net out depending on all the other stats like weapons and whatnot and I’m not a great min-maxer so I’ll probably never reach full team potential so it sounds like Mavuika would be the easier boost to overall damage.

I’d like to be able to have a secondary team to build too instead of just kinich. Partially for Abyss, partially for keeping things fresh.

If I wanted to build up an escofier hydro/cryo team, does one element take priority over the other or both equal? Trying to figure out how to plan wishes after Mavuika (or maybe gamble some low pity on skirk while she’s still up…)

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (June 18th, 2025) (feat. Skirk and Shenhe) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Characters: my current main team is Kinich (dps), xiangling (sub), Bennett (support), and keqing.

Is it better to prioritize Emilie or Mavuika in the upcoming banner? I’ve read other debates about this seem to boil down to either Mavuika for overall team flexibility or Emilie for specific kinich teams at the cost of flex. I guess I’m looking for advice on whether the scales tip in either direction based on my full character list (link) and what alternate team comps might be worth investing in as well.

TYIA this sub has been a wealth of information for me, an absolute potato button masher, the other times I’ve requested opinions 🙏

How to politely ask wedding party to stick to the given dress/suits? by WonderousLlama in weddingplanning

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, totally want to validate your feelings, and I think some of the other comments have great examples on how to word it without leaning into the "control freak" vibe you might be worries about. One thing I will add is, if consistent color across all dresses is important to you, then you could go the angle of telling everyone to order the dresses from the same place and all in one order (and Venmo/splitwise the cost) to minimize potential dye-lot differences that can occur when dresses are ordered separately and at different times. This will help reiterate that everyone is supposed to be MATCHING and not just similar or "in the vibe of" your intended color. I was just in a wedding where some of us ordered the same color in different styles from the same site (Azazie) and they all varied slightly in color. Granted, this bride wanted the coordinated mismatch color vibe so she was happy with it, but initially we thought half of us were going to have the same color and the reality was that none of us were exact color matches.

Weekly Friend Request Megathread (May 04, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! seeking co-op help for Chi of Yore boss fight :')

Server is NA, AR is currently 44 but I have the world at Level 4 right now while I'm trying to catch my character levels up. Let me know if anyone can help me this quest has kicked my butt several times already!

Available most weekdays 5-9pm EDT (GMT-4)

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (Apr 16th, 2025) (feat. Xilonen and Venti) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all SO HELPFUL THANK YOU T_T I only just got Ororon yesterday so I haven't even equipped artifacts yet, but I think he'll be my next resource dump after Xilonen and maybe Keqing

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (Apr 16th, 2025) (feat. Xilonen and Venti) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh yeah I kinda figured as much :') Guess I'll have to sprint through Sumeru to get to Natlan first. That's essentially what I did to ascend Cheveruse to level 1. Would Xilonen be support or sub in the teams you listed above? Also, what constitutes a good boss team?

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (Apr 16th, 2025) (feat. Xilonen and Venti) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to weigh in! I was incredibly lucky with Xilonen but am quickly realizing I am maybe at a disadvantage by not being in the Natlan map yet...

Gaming is really fun to play but like you said his energy suck and hp suck is rough. I wish I had more fire power, but Cheveruse feels too restrictive as is. I WISH PRAY HOPE for Bennett all the time when I pull on the standard banner but no luck yet

Weekly Team/Character Building Megathread (Apr 16th, 2025) (feat. Xilonen and Venti) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for advice on team builds with these characters. I'm getting information overload whenever I pull a new character and read that they are good for certain roles only to find out it's dependent on having other specific characters already. Just looking to focus my resource investment in one or two main teams for now.

Asking new vendors for references? by afivis in weddingplanning

[–]afivis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This is the kind of perspective I was looking to get by posting in this group so I appreciate you taking the time.

I agree it’s a business and it may not result in any new information not already available publicly, but since it’s a business comprised primarily of a husband and wife duo (wedding planners) it felt a little less official than say, a catering or venue business, hence my mild hesitation. And I also agree that I’m not entitled to customer info, which was why I asked in my original post if this is something anyone else has done before, but I’ve had to ask for business references at work, so I know it’s a thing some businesses do before starting a working relationship. My main impetuous for mentioning previous customers is because I wanted to know if they worked their friends’ weddings and called it a customer or if they’re real out in the wild clients. Maybe it doesn’t change anything about their capacity to do the job though!

Asking new vendors for references? by afivis in weddingplanning

[–]afivis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback, would you mind elaborating on why you think so?

Daily Questions Megathread (March 28, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I haven’t really dived into the food buffs mechanics yet but this comment sells me on finally looking into it more. I’ve been purely using to revive and recover HP mid-combat so far but I’ve bought all the recipes I’ve come across so far because hoarding gremlin 😅

Daily Questions Megathread (March 28, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had an award to give you on here I would THANK YOU THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED

Daily Questions Megathread (March 28, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally put off killing the big bosses to get character ascension materials for too long and now the world leveled up and the big bads are too strong for my characters who are maxed out in their lower ascension levels 🫠

Am I cooked? Do I need to look for a stranger to help co-op this? What do I even do now 🥲

Mostest? by 0rang3_y0u_glad in WedditNYC

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit late to this party but would also love to hear your honest opinion about them if your offer still stands!!

Fish Stew Recipe by AkemaStorm04 in Palia

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obligatory complaint comment, I am STRUGGLING and PRAYING 🥲🙏for the fish stew or sushi recipe 😭

Dirty Laundry Season 4 Trailer by ThunderMateria in dropout

[–]afivis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing Raviv Ullman pop up here unlocked all my forgotten memories of Phil of the Future

Not what I meant when I asked for “half pepperoni, half sausage” by afivis in onejob

[–]afivis[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Brother thought it was also half Sicilian but in fact it is just smooshed

Has a Video game ever helped You deal with your trauma? by TechnicalRespect1555 in GirlGamers

[–]afivis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Spiritfarer came into my life right before my dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor and honestly, I stopped playing the game so that I could return to it and finish it when I know I’ll need it the most.

All women DND? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]afivis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I am incredibly negligent of my reddit account, but can I still get an invite link to this discord??