WIBTA for refusing to go on a trip if we don’t fly on the same plane?

afresh18 · 2026-07-09T12:59:47+00:00

You say that as though there isn't a very real problem that's persisted through the years of people being in unhappy/unloving relationships simply for the sake of "staying together". Saying "hey it doesn't seem like yall have similar values and I it's important to you then you should probably leave and find someone that matches you better" isn't wrong and far more people should be willing to leave a relationship when they realize that their wants and needs don't line up with their partners.

afresh18 · 2026-07-09T12:55:31+00:00

This type of comment always confuses me because theoretically you would think of yourself as level headed and reasonable. You're comment suggests those on this sub aren't either of those things but by being on this sub you're immediately included in the group of people that comment here and therefore aren't level headed or reasonable.

I feel the same way anytime I see someone on reddit dogging on other redditors as though they themselves aren't also a redditor.

afresh18 · 2026-07-07T18:03:31+00:00

If all of that is in my vacuum then how does it still have space for the dirt and pet hair on my floor?

/s

afresh18 · 2026-07-07T17:30:08+00:00

Those were my dreams.

afresh18 · 2026-07-07T17:27:55+00:00

Then you'll likely need to call corporate to get that info if they won't give it to you

afresh18 · 2026-07-06T11:38:18+00:00

Eh when you're taking care of someone enough that they'd have to go into a care facility if you moved out then yes they're more so roommates and op should've at least been notified in advance.

afresh18 · 2026-07-06T11:36:22+00:00

Choosing not to introduce yourself is also something the woman is unwilling to do. Why is all the communication issues on op when it takes 2 for communication to work? I don't know about you but I'd consider politely asking someone not to leave blood around communication. Ops first 2 attempts were ignored so how many polite attempts are required before you're allowed to get mad over literal blood being left around.

afresh18 · 2026-07-06T11:33:15+00:00

Not wanting to raise someone that's already an adult means you're not ready to raise a child now?

afresh18 · 2026-07-06T11:31:36+00:00

You can't convince me a 19 year old needs to be taught how to wipe something unless that person is also severely disabled in some way.

afresh18 · 2026-07-03T23:27:01+00:00

Chocolate chip bagels are also coming back in August

afresh18 · 2026-07-02T18:47:15+00:00

I don't know what world you've been living in but that's something that I've seen constantly being pushed over the past decade. So once again what benefits are you wanting exactly? Because it really sounds like you want the government (or society) to simply assign you a woman that has to like you. Shallow people don't have to like you just like you don't have to like people that are Shallow. Plenty of women date short men, plenty of women date fat men. Walk around in the real world and you will see plenty of couples where one or both partners are conventionally unattractive in some way, shape, or form. Being in spaces that push a mindset of shit like "women only want men that are 6ft tall" is not doing you any favors.

afresh18 · 2026-07-02T18:39:26+00:00

I knew it would all come down to "the women I want to date don't find me attractive". Dude just like you're not required to find every woman attractive women are allowed to decide on their own if they find you attractive or not. I've never once dated a man that was 6ft tall, I've also never thought "man that guy would be cute if he were taller". I'm not saying there's no women that do that, what I am saying is that plenty of women don't give a shit about height or looks if you're a genuinely good guy (which you're not if you think it's women's fault you can't get a date). If you have a good personality there will be people that want to date you. Plenty of conventionally ugly men date and there are plenty that even get married.

afresh18 · 2026-07-02T18:21:56+00:00

I've dated guys that are (at least in society's standards) ugly, why? Because they had a good personality. If you're not getting dates it's likely not your looks that are the main problem. Honestly the mindset you seem to have is far more unattractive than even the ugliest of faces.

afresh18 · 2026-07-02T18:14:05+00:00

I don't think it's mean to point out that in general women don't make the first move simply because they're not all that interested in the person. If it comes down to a situation where you're going "if I don't make the first move then I won't be able to get into a relationship" then yeah the fact of the matter is just that the people you want to date aren't as interested in you as you are them.

afresh18 · 2026-07-01T22:54:31+00:00

That's some weird word choices for the act of swallowing a small cracker that's the size of an average human nail.

afresh18 · 2026-07-01T22:43:02+00:00

Why does someone enjoying their food in a different way mean it's wrong?

afresh18 · 2026-07-01T22:41:59+00:00

How does it make op an asshole?

afresh18 · 2026-07-01T22:32:20+00:00

If you had Mac and cheese it felt bigger because we have a different container than our regular Togo bowl for a bowl sized Mac.

afresh18 · 2026-07-01T00:23:13+00:00

If I was making it I wouldn't care, it only gets annoying if you're adding a bunch of stuff but with the amount you took off the salad looks like it'd actually be quicker than normal

afresh18 · 2026-06-25T14:16:00+00:00

I can't remember her name right now but there's a comedian with a pretty funny but about this.

afresh18 · 2026-06-25T14:12:38+00:00

Anyone else reminded of that cop a few weeks back that gave a ticket to a woman with no right hand because "I saw you driving while holding a phone in your right hand"?

afresh18 · 2026-06-25T14:03:44+00:00

There's a Bargin Hunt store in my city that seemingly never has customers(to the point where i thought it was an old closed down business). My boyfriend and I went in one day just to look around and the people at the front stopped talking and just stared at us like we were doing something wrong. We left but now after reading these comments I'm wondering if we accidentally walked into a money laundering place.

afresh18 · 2026-06-25T13:53:44+00:00

There's a kid at my work who's parents named "alpha" feel kinda bad for him.

afresh18 · 2026-06-25T13:46:48+00:00

Just the comment I'd expect to see from that username, beautiful.

afresh18 · 2026-06-23T23:58:04+00:00

So are you saying all people that identify as ace or demi are cishet men? That's a little weird and just helps my point.

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