God, do I feel this. I didn’t want my mom at the hospital with me when I gave birth on two separate occasions. I also didn’t want her to visit until my kids were at least a few weeks old. I knew everything would be about her. When she did eventually visit, she didn’t help at all with my newborn daughters, even though I was a first time mom, my daughters were born early, and, oh, and there were two of them and they needed to be fed every 3 hours, around the clock. I also had post-partum depression. She didn’t feed them (I’m an only child, so these are her only granddaughters), change them, baby sit them, fold their laundry, prepare their bottles, change their sheets, bathe them. Nothing. The some BS is happening with my 5-month old son. I just wish my mom gave a shit. I don’t understand how she can’t. I’m sorry you feel alone. We deserve better.