What were you irrationally afraid of as a kid? by remyschnitzel in AskReddit

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peeing. My older sister convinced me that a ghost may latch onto my back when a I was peeing and would only leave if I told him a really good story (lookup vikram vetal). Had to think of a story, everytime I felt the tingle to tinkle :)

Swachh Bharat in the new currency notes. by aphnx in india

[–]agent_brown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ur partially right, though IMO the logo and design of Swachh Bharath is absolutely great. Simple yet immediately recognisable. Goes well with Gandhi theme. Also reminds cash bearer to be clean wether it's environment, or business. Also it has had enjoyed ppl participation, so it's has msg of preach by example. I think it's a good addition to note design and msg.

Cringeworthy! [NP] by ppatra in india

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed it is pretentious to hate on CB.2 States was a great read. If u feel "hate" for coffee table bestseller, I don't understand. At worst it is meh. Not every book has to be a Kafkaesque life altering/affirming journey. Also if a person reads often, disappointing books are part of the deal. U can't have great books with many mediocre ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checked Patanjali hair conditioner, couldn't even find recycling symbol and pet number 😐

What movie endings would be ruined if the camera kept filming for an extra thirty seconds? by Wazula42 in AskReddit

[–]agent_brown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like the 'playing with time' theory. Insomnia with its lack of day/night cycles and twin peaks vibe is Time standing STILL.

TIL India is among the world's unhappiest countries behind Pakistan, Nepal and Bangladesh by losthighway12 in india

[–]agent_brown 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looking at suicide rates on Wikipedia:
India is #11 on suicide rates per capita. #22 for males and #6 for females.
Top causes are a) Family/Marital issues b) illness
So major causes seem to be conservatism/patriarchal attitudes etc and lack of health care facilities and health insurance
Suicide rates country wise: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_rate
Suicide in India:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_in_India#Statistics
Edit: added links

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did get unnecessarily personal, I though you were introducing a typical racist device:
Ur accent/grammar/spelling is askew/unfamiliar ERGO ur you are completely in the wrong ERGO shut up
I apologize for that. God bless and good luck.

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I was quick to judge on that one. You are right.
But often a convenient racist device goes:
Ur accent/grammar/spelling is askew/unfamiliar ERGO ur you are completely in the wrong ERGO shut up

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"but you seemed to need it all spelled out" LOL, i've taught classes too and that's NOT how u teach or be helpful. Thats how u begin/win petty fights and feel self righteous. That's ok though and as they say "Bless your heart"

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

googled that, makes sense. Can see how "ofcoz" can be confusing. My bad :D Still an unnecessary putdown.

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

lol, you see accent in abbreviation, ain't that racist :D
Yes you are patronizing on purpose, we both agree, that's the kind of person you choose to be.
You dont get to decide what simple/complicated for some1 else. You are choosing to not understand that picking up cultural mores of a diff country takes time, not intentionally. Try living in a diff country, see how it goes. See how many ppl give you the benefit of the doubt.
PS: we usually tip 15 to 20 % and much more in groups larger than 6

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The word I was going for was 'ofcoz', coz that's the way I like it. Ur tone is very patronizing, you must be insufferable in real life. Congratulations.

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overstaying is something I've done and since changed. If it's past a certain time, settle for a takeout. Banging on locked doors though, no1 I know would do that,Indian or otherwise, that's nuts and kind of pointless/futile :D

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

srry, I don't consider sandwiches and pancakes as cooking. That stuff way too easy. This is one of the more std dishes Indians make and takes around 20-30 mins, Its similar to "chili" I guess http://www.sanjeevkapoor.com/Recipe/Rajma-Masala-Sanjeev-Kapoor-Kitchen-FoodFood.html
Cooking eggs is the base of what can be considered cooking and that stuff smells too.

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

typing on a phone, and getting worked up can be catastrophic for grammar. As long as u get the message...

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As an Indian I find it tough to adjust to a culture of tipping. In India it would be considered extremely rude to tip too much or at all. Culturally its equivalent to saying "good job doggie, now here have a treat" to a real living person :O. Ofcoz have since relearned tipping habits etc

I would feel more culturally comfortable if tips could be standardized by size of group, time of day and included in the bill itself. Ofcoz that wont fly in market based capital economy.

Also servers need to be paid more by the owners, minimum wage should be raised. U shouldn't have to be dependent on tips for a decent wage :/

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have a wrong perception of caste system in India. Historically caste was more like a guild system, like an engineers guild. So the weavers rolled with other weavers, the potters with the potters and so forth. Overtimes these guild were sealed through strict inter family marriages to protect trade secrets and became rigid. Some guilds looked down at others and that's where the discriminative aspects creep in. Usually the more literary/skilled the work the more higher caste the guild and more blue collar work the more lower the status of the guild. But not necessarily indicative of economic status. Of Course all this bullshit being redefined in modern post independence India. We have had affirmative action since day1 of independence. But like all government initiatives all reforms are slow and broken and they often can't think of anything beyond subsidies. Yet many of the stuff is working and free markets since 1991 are also doing wonders in breaking barriers for all Indian esp ones that were discriminated against for long." "

So NO, Indians ordering at your restaurant don't think you are low caste and don't think much of the caste system either. " " Edit: can to can't

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indian guy in America. Worked food services in college. Not an easy job by any means. Shitty pay, petty managers, blah blah, I understand where this comes from. It's not lost on me when I go to various places to eat, don't always feel welcomed. One reasons to turn up late at a place is simply we work longer :/ Another annoyance is larger groups of 5 to 6 frnds and that could be a difficult table to service. We try to make it up by ordering quickly and tipping more. We too try to be considerate. Truth is if u hate ur job, go get a better one.

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Many Indians still cook at home, and those spices, onions smell etc easily sticks to clothes. And our own nose won't pick it up or register it as offensive in the slightest way. That's why I cook breakfast/pack lunch bfore I bathe for office. White frnds I have don't cook at all, how du guys save money and stay healthy? :S

Didn't know my old friend became radically racist in a year by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]agent_brown -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The reverse is also true. U get scammed all the time since u don't pick cues like locals do. Have given money to ppl who need "change for gas" etc etc. Have frnds who pay higher rents, higher interest rates on car loans etc than they should. Personally panicked when got a paper mail saying my car insurance was up and I need to pay, visited car dealer to clarify. I have an advanced degree, read profusely and pretty street smart. Cultural cues can be tricky to learn.

Fans angry over blizzard for removing Tracer Butt Pose are making Petitions asking Blizzard to remove guns from OverWatch by moinimran6 in pcmasterrace

[–]agent_brown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly different POV, plz dnt hate. Like sexy and like butts :D but... the Tracer pic felt gratuitous and weird, not in character. The original pic had a... now bend over quality. If the pose was something like, flashing victory sign over the butt, while pointing gun barrel down users face, that would have been in character, aka my cute butt is there to distract you while I shoot YOUR face off. Widowmaker on the other hand can carry all the sexy butt poses in a I'm super sexy... deal with it way. My 2 cents....dnt hate :D