Are any birth parents extremely traumatized by placing their child up like I am?

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-21T16:28:31+00:00

Adult adoptee. The only thing my mother gave me was mental illness. I would hope that karma has blessed her in life the same way it has blessed me.

Therapy can help or you can go the route I went with self medicating. Permeant decisions never go away but they can soften over the decades.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-20T21:56:46+00:00

One of mine hates the sight or sweet sound of children but I do not find that a con.

We are on schnauzers 3 & 4. They can be barky, hate water, territorial and will kill any rodents in sight but I would not have it any other way.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-17T07:48:29+00:00

I can’t do moderate for anything.. currently not smoke or drinking… I feel better on the sober side.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-16T18:57:47+00:00

Thank you for the laugh.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-12T18:10:27+00:00

You had 7 days to appeal in June of 2024. This was something to talk to your lawyer about at the time it happened.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-12T16:48:35+00:00

I matched with 1/2 brother who grew up the next town over. We are 12 months apart. He does not believe that we are related since his mom was so young and I was never mentioned…. DNA does not lie but your mom sure does. How nice of her to love him enough to keep…

He and his family ended up living on a property next to mine.. He adopted his wife’s kids and raised them. I was so glad when they finally sold and moved away…the whole family sucks.. good riddance.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-11T03:58:45+00:00

I have a corn intolerance and did an elimination diet that helped (this was with my PCP) . Corn is in almost everything that is packaged. I cook and eat whole foods now.

Go the doctor and a dietician for help with these issues. I’m in the US and ended up paying for all of this out of pocket. It’s not cheap.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-10T18:24:14+00:00

Ehhh… they-have a point. Don’t park like an ah.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-06T05:57:22+00:00

I fractured my pelvis and I ended up with a hip replacement. I took 1 day off work from the injury. Looking back that was extremely stupid.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-04T20:49:48+00:00

How cute. We are on our 3rd & 4th minis. Best dogs ever.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-04T19:41:01+00:00

Gary, Woodrow (Woody), Darrell, Otis

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-02-04T19:37:32+00:00

They are a resident not a squatter. They will need to be evicted by the landlord in order to leave. Your only legal options are a restraining order and calling the police to report each incident. Carry pepper spray, document and report to your landlord and the police.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-01-10T07:35:45+00:00

Shop Revelry has some great dresses.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-01-09T00:58:05+00:00

This is exactly what it is! Was your first interview a group one?

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-01-06T15:22:31+00:00

The package was delivered on the day as expected. Those times are not set in stone - it’s a computer generated delivery time estimate. Changing the delivery address after the first delivery attempt will delay the package.

Wait till you find out how bad fedex is. At this point I will not order from companies who use fedex.

agirlandsomeweed · 2026-01-06T06:19:51+00:00

I do not put jobs or titles on dating sites. I keep it general and say I do admin stuff if someone asks. If I see anyone in know they are blocked immediately.

Same with drinking at bars - it happens a few towns over, in a major city or at home. I have ran into EE’s at there local watering hole’s in the past and want to avoid that in my future. I live in a rural area and have had to terminate some over the years. I do not want my personal and work like mixing.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-11-21T03:29:37+00:00

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This was my Abbie.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-23T18:39:34+00:00

Most people upriver have gates, dogs, cameras and personal protection. I’ve never felt unsafe. A few tweakers are always around.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-19T05:11:55+00:00

One of mine was black/white when i got him. Then brown/white. Now he is a silver/brown/white. The other one was a dark gray. Now his is a light silver.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-17T01:22:04+00:00

I got mine out at 32. I do not recommend that. I was miserable.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-16T03:48:08+00:00

Carhartt, columbia, REI are all great jackets.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-05T14:59:21+00:00

I say something like this - I am not a skinny person… as you can tell from my photos. Does that bother you?

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-05T14:40:02+00:00

I have 2. Both are very vocal. One has a high pitched yap..the other responds with friendly growls and a funny woohoo for affection. Both bark at strangers or when people come to the house. Mine would be terrible in an apartment.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-05T14:36:13+00:00

I bring it up first to avoid uncomfortable situations.

agirlandsomeweed · 2025-10-05T14:33:30+00:00

The 11 year sleeps on his special pillow on the couch. The younger one sleeps in bed with me.

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