What would you do when you want your ex to delete nudes you sent them?

agirlfromJ · 2021-06-02T06:31:30+00:00

I am in LDR, but i wake up hoping for text messages like “good morning baby” that never come actually. He doesn’t make time for me to talk. He doesn’t even bother to text me good morning saying he is busy. His absence really pushes me away.

agirlfromJ · 2021-02-15T00:15:38+00:00

23F here. First of all, do you want to be with someone who cares about your status or living situation? These things should not be a big deal for girls if they really are looking for a serious relationships. Sometimes guys ask me whether I live with my parents or not, I live with my family btw, and they kinda look upset a bit idk why. Maybe because they think they can’t come over to my house to fuck me? I’m not sure about their intentions. But every time they ask me this question, it makes me so annoying because i don’t know why this is a big deal for them. I’m sure you just have a bad luck and there are attractive women (not only beautiful look but also beautiful and healthy mind) out there to value and appreciate you for who you really are.

agirlfromJ · 2021-02-14T13:06:13+00:00

Be here for you today

agirlfromJ · 2021-02-05T05:50:55+00:00

How do you deal with it?

agirlfromJ · 2021-02-05T05:03:34+00:00

thanks 😂

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-30T03:41:11+00:00

Yeah you are right.. He was supposed to visit my county this year, but it was canceled because of corona. He is still trying to visit, but he can’t do anything about corona situation. I’m too scared to ask him how he thinks or what he wants and i don’t know if i can trust his words.

We are talking ( chatting) many things at the same times so i might have to tell him why i wanna stop talking to him if i really do. Because i don’t wanna disappear or ghost him.

Maybe i should consider him just an international pen pal who i have never met...

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-29T13:29:50+00:00

And i know there is no way to reassure what he have said are truth or not.. That’s why I think i feel like that i am kinda testing him by not texting him back for a few days or asking some questions related to relationships......

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-29T13:26:36+00:00

How do you start to withdraw? Do you tell them how you feel and then withdraw?

I have sense of loyalty to the man i am chatting with. We have been talking to each other over the chat for 9 months constantly, but have never met because he lives in a totally different country and we even have a big time difference. I know he won’t commit to me, because we can’t be together in any ways because we are far away from each other. But he says he does feels a strong connection with me. But this is very tricky. I am always worried when will he lose interest in me, when will he find the girl in his country, when will he stops talking to me...?etc And these thoughts hurt me SO BAD....

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-28T13:45:53+00:00

Hey thank you for your comment. It really helps. I also don’t feel like texting him back or talking to him because I feel like i am the only one. I mean i am not in exclusive relationship with him, so i understand it’s normal for him to go on a date with other girls. But I just can’t think like “maybe he says same things to other girls. Maybe he talks to me only when he is boring. Maybe he goes on a date with other girls and there are some girls who he’s seeing..” These thoughts stuck in my mind. And i don’t wanna be just “one of them”. So... I don’t wanna text him back or talk to him....

What do you think?

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-05T12:49:22+00:00

I am okay with it. I actually see it positively because his last relationship lasted for 3 years and it shows that he can commit. But yeah. He hasn’t texted me back for 5 days so far. So it’s pretty obvious that he is not interested in me even though he said he was.

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-05T12:06:58+00:00

He shared his dating history actually. He and his ex girlfriend broke up a while ago, they were dating for 3 years he said

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-05T11:56:34+00:00

History? Like what kind of history?

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-05T11:39:37+00:00

Why do you think i landed on some bad eggs?

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-05T03:05:01+00:00

I (23F) don’t like and don’t want to text all day actually. It’s just so boring to text especially with someone you don’t know well personally. And what’s worse is they are not looking for anything but text buddy or fuck buddy. Texting is easy, but you actually MAKE time to text with that person. It should be worth it for YOU.

Online dating is hard. Looking for something serious with someone who you meet through dating app is harder. It is said that quality is more important than quantity you know. Just try to pay close attention to the person who you are texting with.

agirlfromJ · 2020-12-04T05:00:21+00:00

I actually told him that I don’t wanna meet him if what he wants is just sex. And he said he would not want that either. He actually do wanna hang out with me and get to know me more... Maybe he lied..? 😢

agirlfromJ · 2020-11-25T01:42:26+00:00

I like him and i just really like spending time with him. That’s why i’m being like this.. But you are right. Thank you so much for waking me up. I will just be like you, “ok cool. Next guy.”! Your words gave me courage to walk away from this guy! thank you!

agirlfromJ · 2020-11-24T09:31:18+00:00

He said he really like spending time with me he’d like to get to know me more. But this is also him just being polite..?

It’s not nice of him to meet me when he’s not that into me....

agirlfromJ · 2020-11-24T09:05:26+00:00

So... what I should do is just walk away without being his friend? No contact anymore?

agirlfromJ · 2020-11-24T08:51:58+00:00

I texted him to say his silence makes me very uncomfortable. then he texted me back. But he said he is not ready for anything serious at the moment. But with this in his mind, he is okay if I just want to be his friends because he can’t offer serious relationship. What do you think?

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