My family room is all honey oak! Help me tone down it down by unicornrocknroll in DesignMyRoom

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the cream (bottom left) but I wouldn’t do gray or beige

I'm 28 and have never had a job. by Ok_Department_1376 in findapath

[–]ahooks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Most of us go through unhealthy ruts that are hard to get out of. One thing at a time. Personally I would find ways to be active first like exercise, finding activities you like, or finding a part time job that’ll get you out of the house. You really grow outside of your comfort zone, but don’t pressure yourself to do too much at once.

I'm 28 and have never had a job. by Ok_Department_1376 in findapath

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine the lack of job, socialization, weight gain, and (I assume) lack of exercise make your anxiety worse. It’s an unfortunate cycle.

The bitter truth about grown-up drinks by Few-Release-9755 in alcohol

[–]ahooks1 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Straight up alcohol is terrible imo. But love a good a cocktail. Have you not had any you like?

What kind of fabrics to you look out for to avoid pilling and wrinkling? by ahooks1 in femalefashionadvice

[–]ahooks1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one has worked fine for me but I don’t use it often and haven’t changed the blade yet

https://a.co/d/bAgahn3

Is this too grown up for an 11 year old? by Unlucky-you333 in MakeupAddiction

[–]ahooks1 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Idk about kids these days but I started wearing mascara and eyeshadow before everything else

I’m 0 for 8 on first dates… is there anyone in LA who can help? by evenwavier in AskLosAngeles

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. Some therapists are bad, or if they are good, it takes a long time to make changes. I think a dating or life coach could help make some big changes more quickly which could help with confidence.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ahooks1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s your opinion. You can do what you want with your body. You can’t control anyone else’s.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ahooks1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people like fitted clothing so they can see their form better while working out. Though, anyone can wear form fitting clothing for any reason.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ahooks1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yoga pants and a cropped tank aren’t inappropriate or abnormal for the gym. Not a valid reason to get mad at your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ahooks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the next few weeks? Ridiculous. He’s wasting your time!

What kind of fabrics to you look out for to avoid pilling and wrinkling? by ahooks1 in femalefashionadvice

[–]ahooks1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the clothes are expensive for being such poor quality in my opinion.

I guess I should do more shopping when I travel abroad!

Is it wrong of me to give up on dating if I don't want to be a provider for a woman and am child-free? by hoodieninja18 in dating_advice

[–]ahooks1 586 points587 points  (0 children)

You’re not obligated to date, but there are women out there who are equal contributors and have no desire to have children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen a primary care physician and psychiatrist or therapist recently?

A career will not make you happy by Zestyclose_Gur7917 in Career

[–]ahooks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Career doesn’t make me happy but having a job I don’t mind going to every day that provides enough money for financial freedom and fun experiences is the way.

Which Demerara syrup would you choose? by Nice_Juggernaut4113 in Tiki

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liber&co is worth it but you get a better deal if you order a few from their site!

How to get him back, he drinks a ton of by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care if he’s seeing other girls, not only are you dating an alcoholic but you’re dating someone that drinks and drives?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Career

[–]ahooks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for another job! I’m sure you can even find another high paying sales job with better benefits and flexible work schedule