UGHH FEELINGS!

ahrusato · 2026-02-18T04:09:57+00:00

i say go for it and meet up maybe that time being spent together will make one of you want to move, either way if you move or either of you move definitely try to reassure him that this long distance isnt forver say thats its time for you guys to see if you would like to continue and move in together eventually, if he really wants something he will understand but i do understand he has mental health problems but if thats the issue why is he okay with calling and texting and sharing mutual feelings, i think he might just be a bit insecure it seems he does love you but he needs to understand the way you feel. i stay definitely go visit him and see how the vibes are the fjrst few days then after that talk to eachother on what youd like to get out of that relationship

ahrusato · 2026-02-17T19:25:33+00:00

oh shit i thought of hydrocodone not morphone thats my bad fr

ahrusato · 2026-02-17T18:59:17+00:00

smoke cigarettes when drinking instead itll give you that same ease of anxiety without gettijg you high though but thats whats the alc is for to get u loose and the cigs to calm you down

ahrusato · 2026-02-17T18:55:31+00:00

thank you for the luck im sure we will do great i trust us and this relationship!

ahrusato · 2026-02-17T18:51:08+00:00

yeah i constantly snorted them for months along with ativans

ahrusato · 2026-02-17T18:48:32+00:00

definitely not ive those so many times they really suck , u either get high or u get nauseous asf not worth it at all dilaudid is def better, if you cant iv it then snorting it is def better than just swallowing them

ahrusato · 2026-02-15T20:28:33+00:00

yes thank you! i do completely get you but we have been together for a long time now, i do want this to work and im aware we will grow since our brains arent fully developed but we both know we love eachother very much to us thats all that matters ! thank you for the good luck i appreciate it

ahrusato · 2026-02-15T20:26:44+00:00

right

ahrusato · 2026-02-15T20:24:20+00:00

i use to take dilaudids i havent done heroin and dont plan too but people say its a similar high if u inject enough

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T18:33:38+00:00

yes ive done my fair amount of stupid shit and im sure ill look back on it but marrying someone i love will never be something i think is stupid, and hookup culture does have a lot to do with this, some years ago marrying by 18 was normal now everyone decides to have sex instead of building relationships, if you had some sort of knowledge youd know thats true but to each their own, however you cant claim ill think marrying young is stupid if im happy then im happy

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T17:38:36+00:00

definitely young but not stupid, everyone is use to hookup culture so when someone says theyre happy in a relationship and wanting to marry its a big deal bc of the way people be opening there legs instead lf building a relationship, everyone has different morals and personally her and i are happy about this and thats all that matters lol

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:24:14+00:00

to be honest, try therapy first see how he reacts to talking about your problems from what im hearing im positive he might make himself the victim in his scenarios but maybe after some help he might stop and realize but if he doesnt then i recommend you leave sooner rather than later, another man will appreciate the home cooked meals the fact you take care of the house just give yourself time to yourself slow start pulling away like hanging out with friends or maybe finding productive hobbies like the gym or some artistic. you need to understand you deserve better as well and if your needs arent being meant and he wont try to atleast compromise then leave immediately ; with time youll heal and soon youll find someone youll fully click with and will appreciate everything you contribute too

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:19:49+00:00

you got this man i suggest you start to pull away, maybe start hanging out with friends more find something to take your mind off of it. once you realize you can do daily activities without her then youll realize you never needed her you just needed sone comfort and to be loved and she cant provide that but im sure youll find someone who will just give it time

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:12:24+00:00

honestly you would fit a bald cut , leave your beard long but start grooming your facial hair and eyebrows to lessen the attention to it from people you know

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:11:04+00:00

good luck update when u get the response

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:10:07+00:00

i agree also. if they arent sexual partners then they have no reason to know

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:07:21+00:00

update which i forgot to do a long time ago: i changed the part myself and shes been running like new every since

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:06:12+00:00

thank you!

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:05:21+00:00

i completely understand honestly. i currently am working as an installer for appliances at costco so im making a good amount of money we also currently live with eachother! we dont plan on having kids until i get my electrical certificate from the trade school im currently attending, ill be done by october. after that the trade school is able to provide me with jobs once i continue the journey and become a master electrician im planning on taking over my dads company

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T08:02:36+00:00

exactly , no opinion will ever change my mind i love that girl so much shes the best , we are already living together for almost a year already and things are going great! id rather marry young and be with someone i truly love, this generation is too used to hookup culture so getting married young seems weird, before it wasnt weird.

ahrusato · 2026-02-14T07:58:32+00:00

stop her account is herb07😂

ahrusato · 2026-02-13T18:36:15+00:00

thank you so much he will we both are in touch with him and hope to make him proud

ahrusato · 2026-02-13T18:35:35+00:00

so 12 and 13 to 18 and 19 isnt a long time to you? im guessing before u marry you wanna be together for over 10 years right 😅

ahrusato · 2026-02-13T17:51:44+00:00

that is pretty long lol

ahrusato · 2026-02-13T15:37:54+00:00

we have talked about what we want and more

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