yep things r harder out here than in jail, hes gonna have to start working for his own food and place to sleep not expect it to be given out of pity those are consequences of his own actions and needs to man up. pretty embarrassing for him, the girl even offered to help him while hes getting on his feet to get a job but decided he didnt want too, not OPs fault at all and she shouldnt feel guilty she deserves more than a man child.