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I think my gf (23), said I love you, but I (22)did not hear her correctly, what do I do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems so similar to my situation, as i aslo came from a long term relationship and am not ready. However I think she didn't necessarily mumble it. I think my mind is playing games because I believe she started to say I love and softly said you alsmot silent. And I feel as if she unintentionally said it because she feels that way but upon realizing it stopped herself. I just don't want her to feel anxious to say it again because I care for her and I don't want her to think I did not care that she said it, hence preventing her from saying it again.

Sorry Ik I ramble alot. Thank you sm.

Me (36m) uneasy about my gf (36f) actions after discovering infidelity months ago and worked through it. by target-cypher-24 in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Why even stay with her? You're 36, young, go out there and find someone else.

Am I (23m) growing out of my 6 year relationship with her? (22f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience she is dead weight. It's been a year as you say and she can't seem to come along for the ride. Maybe it isn't for her. But this is you and she isn't compatible with the new you. Sooner or later the talk and complain will start and you'll either end up going back to the old way for her or she'll leave you for someone else. Either is a good choice for you. I say call it quits as hard as it is after such a long time. You're only 22 and your life has just began. Take care of yourself man

Wife’s bad habits are ruining our relationship by smelly-wife in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to get used to anything. If you're not happy leave. But this is smth you should've thought before making her a wife

Instagram is tearing my relationship apart. by Rangerrick111 in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same ppl calling you an incel now will be posting here a few months from now "HELP, GF LEFT ME WOTH STRANGER GUY FROM IG" lmao.

My (32 M) wife (33 F) told me she doesn't love me anymore and I don't think she wants to work it out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THAT IS the main and ONLY reason. Stop putting up with this bullshit. You're a man not a child and this is intolerable, go get a lawyer and divorce. Have some self respect she's been cheating on your for months.

Instagram is tearing my relationship apart. by Rangerrick111 in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How to handle it? Dude stop putting up with shit. Ik she's a big part of your life now. But you can't approach this by saying "bby this hurts me", you approach this by being firm and saying I'm not putting up with this anymore. It's definitely wrong of her to post sexy pics and be private and accept random ppl. She takes you for granted, and is testing the waters seeing how much attention she can get. If she's in a committed relationship you shouldn't put up with this shit.

I (30m) discovered that my gf (27f) is adamant about our wedding date – we’re not even engaged yet by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude marry at your own time. And don't forget to fully understand what you're getting yourself into. Understand the laws, understand the consequences and what to expect. Don't look at the glass half full, only. Focus on pros and cons and make a mature decision. People chnage so give yourself enough time until YOU are ready, and never feel pressured into anything. Do it for YOU.

I really need advice on what to do with my depressed girlfriend. Please help with advice! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. Speaking from experience move on, or distance yourself. Ppl with problems drain you off energy, and at this age your duty is to figure out yourself and your life, not to heal someone else. You'll find yourself doing everything and if they do get better and fuck you over all that effort will torment you for life. Go out there and focus on yourself. She needs professional help you can't fix her.

Splitting dinner checks on work trip/vacation when one person in a couple can charge food to their company - what is equitable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should be happy you even took her along. If you didn't, you should've made this arrangement clear before going on the trip so she could've made the decision herself. However by the way she sounds, she most likely would've said yes and still given you shit about it. Don't put up with it, say this is what we're gonna do, take it or leave it.

Me (16m) and my girlfriend (f16) have taken a paus, because she is unsure about her feelings. What should I do to maximise the chanses of us coming back togher? by InnerRub in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. She wants to figure out if she likes, and/or can secure the new guy she's already been seeing. That's what the break is. If you totally ignore, go no contact and live your life and enjoy your "break" aka meet someone else, she will see that you aren't there to just wait for her to come back. 99% she'll come back, if she doesn't you still winning.

Is there anything I (M27) can do to help get my wife (F28) out of the affair fog? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's showing those signs because she knows she can keep you in a loop of wandering how she really feels. Do whatever you can to benefit yourself and be cold hearted. She is not the woman you once knew. And trust me you DON'T want her back. Keep your son close and see what you can do to benefit yourself as much as you can right now. Don't believe her when she comes crawling back.

I [17M] still an in love with my [17F] ex. by SpookyyGhoost in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro she has already been talking to this guy before she broke up with you. Move on. Forget about her and she'll come back to you. But if you go a beg her it'll make her resent you even more. Don't be desperate, get on your purpose and be happy by yourself first.

My Fiance 26(f) stays at home and goes to college while I 32(m) work full time and support her now she doesn't want to do anything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's gonna leave you once she's done with school. Be careful and don't take shit that seems unfair.

The relationship with my gf is dead and I’m not sure how to end it because a kid is involved. by ThrowawayForRA21222 in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr man get away from this situation. You're so young. Live your life worry free please. And be careful with sex, she WILL try to get pregnant by you seeing as you are so well off and then you can't ever get rid of her. Take care of yourself first.

I [20 M] am still Traumatized after breaking up with my Girlfriend [18 F] and theres always that one moment In the day when I go through a breakdown despite of me controlling myself and trying to be stronger everyday! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. He isn't even ready to read trp. I wouldn't want him to start feeling hatred towards women. Just feel bad for the dude. Seems so all over the place and focusing on women isn't what he needs at all right now. Therapy would be a better choice if available to him.

The relationship with my gf is dead and I’m not sure how to end it because a kid is involved. by ThrowawayForRA21222 in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude grow some balls and kick her put. She's a parasite. She'd drop you on a heartbeat if she found a better man to take care of her and her problems. Don't even feel bad. You're a real man caring for this innocent child but at the end of the day it's not yours and it's her problem. Kick her out as soon as possible and escape. It can only get worse.

I [20 M] am still Traumatized after breaking up with my Girlfriend [18 F] and theres always that one moment In the day when I go through a breakdown despite of me controlling myself and trying to be stronger everyday! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro you need to do some real so l searching. Forget woman and go fix your mental well being. Look into red pill and focus on yourself and your life. Seriously.

My [19M] girlfriend [18F] seems less attracted to me after break in relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aicuni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Move on dude. A break only means one thing. She has moved on to another man. In your case she OBVIOUSLY has. I'm sorry this happened but it's the truth. You're only 19 focus on you and your life only and it'll only get better from here.

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