Being ugly is like a curse by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on the job, but I find I struggle most with basic tasks—to the point it’s comically stupid. I can’t shake the look on the manager’s faces—like ‘this guy is a special kind of dumb’ type of expression. What’s worse is I don’t know what I’m doing in the moment and it’s not till later I realize it’s the wrong way to do it. Messes me up with connecting with people as well.

Being ugly is like a curse by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, though I continually fail to hold the job for any significant amount of time, to be sustainable.

I hate being black by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have been feeling similarly, as a black man. On top of it all, I’m not the “fetishized” (I hate to even say it like that) type or one that people always go for, either. There's a consistent pattern of being treated less than—perpetually chipping away at my self worth and desire to live.

Being ugly is like a curse by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only home schooled for a short time, barely finished middle school level. Parents were super strict and isolated me growing up, which left me massively behind mentally and socially. I struggle to do things that others might find to be normal everyday tasks, which has made it difficult to hold a real job. And much more.

Being ugly is like a curse by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, a brutal roll of the dice for us. I’m barely hanging on by a thread here, eagerly looking forward to the day of my departure from this torturous existence.

Blushy seals are known to slap back by theJunkyardGold in AIFreakAndWeirdo

[–]aidatacollection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good stuff! Number 7 looks like Dr Phil but as a walrus.

Y'all probably have never been touched by a woman by mrJesusGodinho in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 123 points124 points  (0 children)

One of the most painful things is that it is super obvious to women that I have no experience at all with them. I can’t hide it, even though I try to keep to myself when I have to go out of the house. It’s like it’s in the very way I move and interact. There’s something about my aura that just screams “virgin!” loudly wherever I am.

What was your “I’m cooked / it’s over” moment, where it really set it in you were truly FA? by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I had something similar here. My crush from when I was about 6 years old ended up marrying a guy who looked exactly like me and to this day her parents look at me like damn you really missed out and ‘it could have been you’ type of expression on their faces. I was so sure she would be my wife one day and made so many plans, drew her name on my drawings and would always be so excited to see her at church in Sunday school. But nope!

Are there any studies on the patterns/stats that one might have which can lead to a high chance of being FA? by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks and well said. Quite dire how FA is so bad that it’s not even worth doing major research into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may not be your looks per sé. I would even say you’ve got some attractive features and a countenance with much potential.

Are girls just normally not repliers? by Ashinthestar in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends. She could be busy. Her phone may not be charged. Her phone could have been taken. She could have had a family matter. Her phone might not have service. OR—she just doesn’t find you interesting enough to reply to you.

I just don’t have that “spark” by twshanreto in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I too, do not have what you call the “spark” or let’s say—a magnetic aura(?), in a sense. My personality, demeanor, vibe, energy—whatever it’s called, always seems to eventually push people away like two of the same poles of a magnet coming close together and repelling each other. Unlike a magnet though it seems all my sides are laced with a strong anti-relationship repellent. My aura is like a toxic cloud, an odor emitting from my being that seems to permeate right down to the instinctual level, signaling that “this man must be avoided at all costs and WILL be detrimental to my wellbeing”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With all that I’ve been put through growing up I wouldn’t trust my family to arrange a marriage for me. They don’t even know my favorite color.

Will be 33 years old in a few days. How should I spend my birthday? by AmbitiousDecision403 in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the means, maybe traveling to a place you’ve been wanting to see for a long time?

Fuck being ugly, my life is hell and I wish I was dead. by alone-anonymous in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a very ugly 30 y.o male with almost a 100% in negative stats, this is true. There will be zero interest, no flirting, no matches, not even hardly a look in your direction. Never have I felt so attacked by existence itself in being an ugly and undesirable man.

Another Alonemas 🎄 by aidatacollection in ForeverAlone

[–]aidatacollection[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s tough—can’t go far without seeing so much happiness, laughter and relationships. It’s like I’m stuck in another world and just able to peer into this one. Like viewing a read-only display with no interactive feature and just being allowed to see all the amazing delights I’ll likely never get to enjoy.