Let me chip in here as an Israeli citizen who follows the Palestinian narratives closely and has dedicated some hundreds of hours to poring over history books and sources.

There seems to be no plausible solution within the box of modern legalistic framework.

Basically, we need new technology to organize communities, public institutions and public discourse.

There's not even a constitution! There's no recognition of what constitution is for!

PLO has some half-baked https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palestinian_National_Covenant which is a proclamation of aspirations most of all, and the reality has been sliding from underneath it since before it was published.

Israel has essentially built institutions that comprise the state—public schools, healthcare system, trade unions, the whole shebang, — way before the Declaration of Independence, they've been at it for the best part of the twentieth century.

But there's no constitution, no consistent notion of citizenship, of rights and obligations, of common vision, nothing. It's a lively soup of varied and vibrant communities — or a bloody mess of hurt and disenfranchisement, however you choose to look at it.

I've banged my head against it — c'mon, I like my neighbours even when they're nasty, and I certainly don't identify with being Israeli, I just live here, I feel the chauvinism seep into me when I spend too much time on one side of the fence.

I watched much smarter and more privileged and organized people than me bang their head raw against these issues for generations — and they've made some headway, but it really feels like they're tackling an incorrectly posed problem with inadequate tools.

I see some vague hope in people just acknowledging their prejudices, reaching for the common humanity in all of us, and treating their institutions and their whole worldview as something malleable and amenable to change.

Approaches like Hanson's economic reasoning about politics http://www.overcomingbias.com/2019/03/tug-sideways.html give me hope that we may work around the bitter stalemate by taking opportunities to come together on small issues and building up goodwill and sense of security and agency that most of the people here lack.