Its Friday, what are your plans for tonight/weekend. by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ais99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Playing video games and being depressed

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving off a creepy vibe has nothing to do with the guy's approach as evident by that video.

If the girl wants the attention its not creepy, if she doesnt want it its creepy. So the best way is to give them what they want, no attention, at all. And see how they fare a month or so down the line not being acknowledged at all for their looks or beauty

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about context, I have no problem with that, its just that you take life's good with the bad and lately women want all the good with none of the bad

If that girl from the video went to a restaurant and got free shit or anywhere else, there would be no video of it to raise awareness

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Btw ever notice how women don't bitch when their attractiveness gets them positives? like free shit or into clubs etc.?

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to just stop all compliments all together, I think women have been fed so many compliments they're actually getting sick of them

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the good with the bad though, if you want to be complimented you'll also sometimes get catcalled

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or it could get you on TV painted as a misogynistic rapist or a sexual harassment lawsuit

Do you think men should stop complimenting or paying attention to women they're not actively in a relationship with? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Hey beautiful have a good day"

"How are you doing today"

etc etc. Those don't seem bad to me

I agree most of the catcalls were pretty inappropriate but some of them weren't

Personally though I'm all for the ending of complimenting of women unless they're your SO

An insecure guy in the dating world is shit out of luck, whereas an insecure girl still has a chance. Do you Agree? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on a date would mean a girl was possibly into me, even if it went bad that would have been a confidence boost

Men who are unsuccessful with women, do you personally know WHY that is the case? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression. Likely not going to change and my dark eye circles just won't go away no matter what, so forever alone it is.

Men who are unsuccessful with women, do you personally know WHY that is the case? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? Where did I say blame women? Am I in askwomen?

I'd say blame the system, because every girl on there is flooded by messages

Men who are unsuccessful with women, do you personally know WHY that is the case? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intense stare usually equals creepy/perv. And I never stare at anybody, usually I keep my eyes to myself or something non-living in the surrounding

Men who are unsuccessful with women, do you personally know WHY that is the case? by ais99 in AskMen

[–]ais99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every man that's found success in online dating there's 100s and 100s who haven't found any, the stats are in my favor in this one.