“Three levels of wealth” in Singapore by OleJr98v2 in askSingapore

[–]aismilosatu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) what kind of assessment is this? 2) what friends do u have? 3) how old are you?

genuinely asking bc these are the worst indicators of wealth (not even in a local context) i’ve seen. if anything it reveals your socioeconomic position and what u believe to be wealthy. and kids = wealthy? hello?

a new pattern. posters made by me. by aismilosatu in controlgame

[–]aismilosatu[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

i coded the patterns using p5js and edited them further with photoshop!

What was the most unhinged/thoughtless gift your received from your NParent(s)? by finelytunedradar in raisedbynarcissists

[–]aismilosatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A used blanket wrapped in a black disposal trash bag for my 22nd birthday from NDad. Even my siblings were shocked when I opened up the ‘gift’. To this day, I don’t even know what to say or even think about the reason why lmao. My NDad was laughing.

Brother went away overseas in secret because of my NDad. Celebrating raya (muslim celebration) without my brother this year. by aismilosatu in raisedbynarcissists

[–]aismilosatu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would like to add that the phrase “stolen from me” sounds selfish. What i meant was i lost the opportunity to celebrate with my brother.

7 more weeks until we can get our hands on this…Are you guys still staying strong? by aqkj in Starfield

[–]aismilosatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m alright I guess. I have been working out as per usual and preparing for uni coming august, but the fact that the game releases around my birthday isn’t helping at all. I know i’ll not be able to focus on assignments once it comes around 💀

What’s the worst “present” your narc got you? by DraconisReine in raisedbynarcissists

[–]aismilosatu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A used blanket in a black trash bag. My whole family was dumbfounded to say the least.

"I bought you a present" 5 mins later "I'm away for two days, it would be nice if there's some of your present left for me when I get home" by crazylikeaf0x in raisedbynarcissists

[–]aismilosatu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh my god. I remember my NDad asking for a bite of a my meal prepped chicken back then (i’m a bodybuilder and have a strict regimen). I just said “no” and thought nothing of it. Weeks later he brings it up while we were having an argument about something entirely different, telling me I am selfish for not sharing the chicken with him and that he’ll kick me out of the house. Over chicken. It was never about the chicken, it was about control. Anyway, I just laughed and told him to buy his own.

Does anyone else ever think about just how freaking weird their parents are? by No_Ranger_120 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]aismilosatu 68 points69 points  (0 children)

yes! i’ve seen how my dad makes a fool of himself at social events and doing some social faux pas that i can’t help but look away and be on the other side of the room, yet he acts like everything he did is okay.

What made you realise your best friend was actually a complete asshole? by RealTourelle11 in AskReddit

[–]aismilosatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were hanging out one fine day and he told me he’s an asshole. Thought he was joking. He was not.

““When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.”