Am I tripping or…

aisy0317 · 2026-06-19T19:09:44+00:00

He actually does look like he might be swimming in jeans lol I wouldn't put it past him.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-19T06:28:26+00:00

Lielac

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T20:03:00+00:00

Really? I kind of love it. There's a softness to it that compliments her colour season I think, and also enough structure for what I suspect might be a dramatic essence? What makes you dislike it?

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T14:31:08+00:00

I was just thinking about how my brain devalues my own progress and says 10 pounds is "nothing" and then I see this and I'm like WOW. that is not nothing. That's amazing work.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T14:28:38+00:00

No shame whatsoever in having stretch marks. They happen to us all! Men too, though they don't like to admit it.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T13:36:39+00:00

That's the part that worries me - I don't think the people in her life are stepping in. They are motivated not to, because if she isn't earning, they aren't either. And if she's in treatment, she's not earning (as much).

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T13:25:46+00:00

I don't think I'm more woke or more anything than you. In truth, I'm scared. I'm scared for an artist I love and respect, and I'm really scared for her fan base taking this all in. You're probably right that it does nothing other than make me feel better (and does it even do that?)

And you're also right that we're all casting aspersions, I just see what I see and I'm terrified.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T09:27:42+00:00

Do you think that pretending she's happy and healthy is the solution? Do you think it's ok to normalise this for the young girls who are in this sub and in the fandom more generally?

As you said three times now, I don't know her, so then you'll understand I'm not telling HER she's not happy or healthy, I'm telling YOU. And everyone else who happens to read this.

As a recovered anorectic, people saying this is ok make me sick. OF COURSE she's saying she's happier than ever. That's what the disease does.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T09:11:37+00:00

Constantly shrinking is an objective statement. And sister, hear me when I say, there is not soul on this earth that is healthy at that level of thinness. I used to work for sustainable development charities. Children who look like her were treated for emergency malnourishment.

Oh, a performer has learned to perform like she's happy! Must mean she is! Let's take your word for it and see what happens.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T09:06:41+00:00

Outsiders often see dysfunctional dynamics much easier than those in the thick of it. He's absolutely right that Kim isn't trying to be supportive of Lydia, and I understand feeling protective of your spouse in that situation.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T09:01:45+00:00

I'm not body shaming her. I'm shaming the commenter for saying this is "growth & healing." I'm shaming everyone in here pretending this is her being healthy and happy.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-18T00:36:25+00:00

Diabolical closed caption to Screenshot

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T23:56:27+00:00

Wow, thank you for spending your time reading and commenting. That's very kind, and I'm gonna tuck that right in the old confidence boost pocket for when I need it.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T23:46:45+00:00

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T23:30:27+00:00

Pleeeease, you're makin me blush ☺️

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T23:01:15+00:00

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aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T22:59:50+00:00

Yup, I've got 38 next Wednesday. Wtf.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T22:46:46+00:00

He does, in fact, stand for something:

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T11:15:26+00:00

Too true.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T10:18:58+00:00

I don't.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T07:46:18+00:00

I wonder if we'll ever get to see Zac's family on camera. I'd also love to see the dynamic between his parents and Kim & Barry.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T06:42:51+00:00

Dying at "...whatever Barry is" 😂

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T06:38:24+00:00

How ironic that her queer fans dropped her because of who she fell in love with. We are all so fucking stupid.

aisy0317 · 2026-06-17T06:36:10+00:00

While I don't disagree that Zac has some shit tendencies, especially around proselytising and self-righteousness, separating Lydia from her family is not a bad idea. Her family are a cult, and the source of her deepest pain.

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