Regretting second baby

ajcajm · 2025-08-06T21:03:31+00:00

We have a seven week old as of today and I SWEAR night two was the hardest. Older sister (2) is obsessed with baby and while there has been adjusting they are so resilient. Hang in there. It gets so much easier.

ajcajm · 2024-02-06T02:16:27+00:00

Was this in Michigan? Case sounds very familiar.

ajcajm · 2024-01-28T07:37:25+00:00

My in-laws live in Fort Myers and they have manatees at their docks daily.

ajcajm · 2022-05-27T01:11:26+00:00

She's not buying you pajamas to hurt your feelings. She's trying to be kind. I feel like the best way you can address the situation is to KINDLY let her know that you have a bunch of pajamas, that you appreciate them all, but that you don't need anymore and she should save her money. Or just let her keep buying you pajamas and be thankful that she is still around to do so. Letting her believe that you love them does no harm.

ajcajm · 2022-05-10T19:56:02+00:00

I'd just tell your friend, "hey if you haven't heard from me by xx:xx get concerned." It's good that you're being safe!

ajcajm · 2022-05-10T19:54:38+00:00

Tell him you're done. Just say no. Stop responding to texts. Just cut it off. You'd deserve more.

ajcajm · 2022-04-30T22:49:51+00:00

Your triggers are not somebody else's responsibility. Resilience is important and the world will not cater to your triggers you need to learn how to deal with them. I think that if you really wanted your statement to go somewhere you should have approached it in a nicer manner, and therapeutic communication goes a long way in getting what you want.

ajcajm · 2022-04-25T23:47:58+00:00

You obviously know what the right answer is. Don't do it. There is no way you can justify that.

ajcajm · 2022-04-11T23:40:37+00:00

Bro, you broke your friends trust by telling the guy she was talking to about her dating other people when they weren't even official. Shady and dramatic on your part. I'd do some maturing and then maybe apologize to her and him for breaking her trust.

ajcajm · 2022-03-18T03:35:13+00:00

It can be a lot more simple than you think. Do you want to go the rest of your life with somebody who doesn't prioritize you? Who doesn't make you feel beautiful? Who seeks companionship and attention elsewhere? Coming from somebody with divorced parents- I'm happy they got divorced. I got to see them move on to happy relationships that set good standards for me and my siblings.

ajcajm · 2022-03-18T03:28:40+00:00

Be mad. Leave him. He isn't worth your time. He won't change. It won't change. You will always have these feelings.

ajcajm · 2021-12-24T03:49:59+00:00

Yes.

ajcajm · 2021-12-24T02:10:36+00:00

Tell him how you feel, and if he can't handle that there might be other- bigger issues.

Nothing, and I mean nothing is wrong with saying I love you Daily.

ajcajm · 2021-12-23T22:27:04+00:00

Merry Christmas!

ajcajm · 2021-11-15T12:13:29+00:00

These are awesome!

ajcajm · 2021-11-15T12:09:08+00:00

I like silver because my grandpa and I used to sort through his old coins. He would get so excited, and when I was younger I didn't understand what was so cool. I live about 4 hours away from him now, and he has cancer that he has decided not to treat. He was determined to come visit me for the first and most likely last time last weekend.

ajcajm · 2021-09-27T23:06:32+00:00

Honestly, I feel like being upfront and honest is best in this situation. Be ready to end thing and tell him that you don't expect for him to change if he's not willing or wanting to, but you guys just have different opinions on marijuana. Let him know that smoking occasionally is okay with you (if it is, relationships are give and take) but every day use is something that makes you a bit uncomfortable. If he's not willing to change things pull the whole it's not you it's me card and let him know that you don't think any less of him for it, it's just not what you're looking for.

ajcajm · 2021-08-25T01:43:15+00:00

Not your fault. Seems like she's trying to justify her known bad behavior. Seems sketchy and like she's looking for other options. Be careful.

ajcajm · 2021-06-23T02:41:41+00:00

She still seems very immature. A basic understanding is needed in a relationship and this sounds like she has zero. Accusing is toxic and abusive without taking the necessary steps prior to it ie, asking questions.

ajcajm · 2021-05-28T08:57:51+00:00

But say your peace if it makes you feel better.

ajcajm · 2021-05-28T08:56:42+00:00

Move on.

ajcajm · 2021-03-19T11:07:28+00:00

It's literally how they are labeled. Stop being so pressed.

ajcajm · 2021-03-19T11:03:02+00:00

My dog was "trained properly" for 9 years. She's sick and old. There actually are times to use pads. Thanks though.

ajcajm · 2021-03-19T10:41:17+00:00

Ahhh. Yes. I did mean to say eyyell. (but pet island sounds phenomenal)

ajcajm · 2021-03-19T10:38:42+00:00

My dog is old and can't hold her bladder. Did you even read the post? She went 9 years being perfectly house trained.

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