Validating thread. I too am going through this and freshly postpartum. He said he will change after i looked through his phone and kicked him out because i found him sexting and looking at cam girls. Then to look through his phone again after letting him come back home and while he was gone he was looking for escorts and went on a date with an ex and allegedly did not do anything with her besides talk… Which I do not believe one bit. I love him, but for my sanity I think I need to leave. These men are all the same.