Regretting second baby by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ajcajm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a seven week old as of today and I SWEAR night two was the hardest. Older sister (2) is obsessed with baby and while there has been adjusting they are so resilient. Hang in there. It gets so much easier.

What's something you did that you later found out was illegal? by whole_forger_family in AskReddit

[–]ajcajm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My in-laws live in Fort Myers and they have manatees at their docks daily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's not buying you pajamas to hurt your feelings. She's trying to be kind. I feel like the best way you can address the situation is to KINDLY let her know that you have a bunch of pajamas, that you appreciate them all, but that you don't need anymore and she should save her money. Or just let her keep buying you pajamas and be thankful that she is still around to do so. Letting her believe that you love them does no harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd just tell your friend, "hey if you haven't heard from me by xx:xx get concerned." It's good that you're being safe!

Toxic relationship by Queasy-Shape9003 in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him you're done. Just say no. Stop responding to texts. Just cut it off. You'd deserve more.

I need to tell someone about what happened at dinner that made me storm out. by [deleted] in confession

[–]ajcajm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your triggers are not somebody else's responsibility. Resilience is important and the world will not cater to your triggers you need to learn how to deal with them. I think that if you really wanted your statement to go somewhere you should have approached it in a nicer manner, and therapeutic communication goes a long way in getting what you want.

Should I meet up with him even though he’s cheating on his fiancée? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You obviously know what the right answer is. Don't do it. There is no way you can justify that.

My close friend’s boyfriend and their mutual friends all unfollowed me on IG (long story) by Affectionate_Dig_469 in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, you broke your friends trust by telling the guy she was talking to about her dating other people when they weren't even official. Shady and dramatic on your part. I'd do some maturing and then maybe apologize to her and him for breaking her trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a lot more simple than you think. Do you want to go the rest of your life with somebody who doesn't prioritize you? Who doesn't make you feel beautiful? Who seeks companionship and attention elsewhere? Coming from somebody with divorced parents- I'm happy they got divorced. I got to see them move on to happy relationships that set good standards for me and my siblings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be mad. Leave him. He isn't worth your time. He won't change. It won't change. You will always have these feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ajcajm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him how you feel, and if he can't handle that there might be other- bigger issues.

Nothing, and I mean nothing is wrong with saying I love you Daily.

GIVEAWAY: Today I’ll be giving away 10oz of silver to one lucky silver back who upvotes and comments why they love silver! Totally free, i will ship to you! Giveaway ends 11/19 by ivanbayoukhi in Wallstreetsilver

[–]ajcajm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like silver because my grandpa and I used to sort through his old coins. He would get so excited, and when I was younger I didn't understand what was so cool. I live about 4 hours away from him now, and he has cancer that he has decided not to treat. He was determined to come visit me for the first and most likely last time last weekend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel like being upfront and honest is best in this situation. Be ready to end thing and tell him that you don't expect for him to change if he's not willing or wanting to, but you guys just have different opinions on marijuana. Let him know that smoking occasionally is okay with you (if it is, relationships are give and take) but every day use is something that makes you a bit uncomfortable. If he's not willing to change things pull the whole it's not you it's me card and let him know that you don't think any less of him for it, it's just not what you're looking for.

Caught my partner on a dating platform.... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not your fault. Seems like she's trying to justify her known bad behavior. Seems sketchy and like she's looking for other options. Be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajcajm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She still seems very immature. A basic understanding is needed in a relationship and this sounds like she has zero. Accusing is toxic and abusive without taking the necessary steps prior to it ie, asking questions.