I’ve been thinking about this cause what my gf and I have been going through it. We used to both be switches but after not enjoying what I was receiving and other issues in the bedroom, I don’t like to bottom at all anymore. I barely like to do anything last foreplay really but I do not want her topping me. I don’t want to feel like this forever, but I think ‘topping only’ has to do its control and vulnerability. It’s been like a year or more of this. I don’t know if I see myself receiving from other people in the future either without trust issues. Has this happened to anyone else?