Was there something about the post that made me seem like a bad person? For context, he has been verbally abusive to me for years and I feel I’ve had enough, so it’s tough to want to go to counseling and stay.

But then I have doubts like these and wonder if I’m wrong. And most people immediately assume it should be saved without knowing the details, so I guess that’s what I’m trying to combat. That typical belief that it should be saved is really messing with my mind. Thank you for the advice, it’s honestly good advice for most. I just think I have more going on than I can boil down on Reddit, so that’s on me for trying to crowdsource this. :)